I have read the rules and would like to join this group. Checking to see how to activate day counter now. PM is what I want to refrain from.
Not checked in for a few days but still going and very few urges if at all. It almost feels weird, like I have no sex drive but I'm not worrying about it, just nice to not want to jack off and use porn/lose all that energy
Checking in - Enjoying the constant activity of a good personal project. Only using the internet with intentionality (no mindless browsing). Bouncing the eyes after the first look - it doesn't process further in my thoughts. Evicting unwanted thoughts as soon as possible - less fuel to start the fire. All of it is helping me find some stability, and for that I am grateful.
I have read the rules and would like to join this group. I am a 38 year old man in a committed relationship. I am going PM mode at the moment. I last watched porn months ago, but had substituted sexy videos and looking up nude pictures until a few weeks ago. Don’t know the exact date so I put my counter to start when I joined this site. I have not looked at anything, but I have had urges to do so, and would like to be a part of an accountability group.
@flyswat - congratulations on your 60 days of PMO today! You will receive the 60 Day Heavy Lifter Award Sunday night when I update the ranking.
Checking in. Things are all good on the PMO front. Definitely higher drive these days but acting out is not an option for me, I can't live my life like that anymore. There is nothing worthwhile in PMO for me, I always need to remind myself of that.
Today is my 8th day without M and 15th without P. I've had urges (mainly thoughts) yesterday and today but I'm still clean. I also need to remember this!
Checking in and going strong...this is the longest streak in AGES! I am well on the way to beating my longest streak
I survived the weekend, on 15 days now. I have a chance of getting a good streak going and I don't want to waste it. Congrats, that's great news. You are at a different stage to me, so you need a different strategy. Right now I am being careful to not allow my mind to wander into anything that would threaten my recovery. But I have found that I don't need to do that any more once I get beyond 40-50 days. It can actually become difficult to stay vigilant when I'm not struggling every day. I think this is where this group can be very helpful, regular scheduled check ins as a reminder of what it's all for.