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Post published by Timetoquit78
I’ve passed the 30 day mark of no PMO/standard mode. It’s been a rough 6 days after hitting the 30 mark. My question has to do with day dreaming about sex with my wife. I feel like this is normal and not a bad thing, but it’s making it hard to stay away from P. That use to be one of my triggers.Rubbing/massaging/scratching my wife’s back is something I’ve always enjoyed doing, but it does lead me to think about sex which can take me down a dark path. Do I stopmassaging and day dreaming about my wife? Or do I find ways to dealwith it not associated with P?
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If it's your wife only, it's not a sin. Whatever you do, do it with her. Also refrain from everything for 90 days. After that the mind usually rewires the pathway and you will stop being obsessed with sex. Don't watch porn. Don't masturbate. Have sex but don't orgasm. Whatever you do just don't watch porn. It's the only thing blocking your benefits. It's not natural. Exercise and enjoy time outdoors. Sex is important but balance your hobbies.