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Post published by Tao Jones

It is not ok to fail, but it’s not the end of the world either.

Have you ever, when asked to do something new or at least something you are not good at, come up with an excuse or given yourself an out going into that activity so in case you failed you don’t feel bad?

In other words, you go into the activity already saying it is okay to fail. And through your readymade excuse, you’re trying to soften the blow so that if failure does occur you’ve given yourself a reasonable explanation why it is okay you failed.

These readymade excuses are what the Bible calls “arguments”, the reasons or justifications for what we do that go against the truth of what Jesus is trying to grow into our lives.
Keep this in mind, though, failure hurts you, no matter the reason for it or the outs we give ourselves. All sin destroys our lives. All our bad choices led us away from Jesus, The source of life, joy and peace.

So, if Jesus wants to change an area of our life to make us more like Him, our excuses only give us one fallback position – our repeated bad choice. Thus, we lose.

Now, having said that, we don’t need to fear failure. Failure is not the end of the world because Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, will finish the job.

Live with no excuses or fear. Let us show our love for Jesus through trusting Him enough to start out in faith, not excuses, and to keep getting up if we fail, by faith.

Our lives will be transformed, something the world desperately need to see.

Source: http://www.morethanasundayfaith.com/2019/11/eliminate-excuses/
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Thank you for sharing sir. It’s so easy to be lazy and run to excuses. Especially the ones you’ve been running to nearly your whole life. This is empowering.

I’d like to quote from John 5:6 where Jesus asks the simple question, Do you want to be healed? He was asking a lame man. Funny enough, he made an excuse! Sometimes, our why is not strong enough. When you why is strong is enough God always backs it up with his promise.
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