Hello, everyone! I'm glad to be joining this community. You can call me Sondae. A few things about me: Before anything, I'm a human. I make mistakes. I give into my vices. I'm here to improve myself for my own sake and for the sake of the women in my life. I'm also an early college student set to graduate this year. I enjoy doing community work and being active in my school. I'm also a musician (and avid music listener) who plays various instruments including guitar, bass, piano, and ukulele. Music is something I am always willing to talk about. I am proud to be an Eagle Scout, although I have a lot of reservations about Scouting in general. You'll probably find that I am very politically active and outspoken, but I hope that doesn't get in the way of our common goals here. Above all, I am the significant other to an incredibly beautiful girl. I joined this community to improve myself so I could be a better boyfriend to her. I hope this explains enough. Good luck to all of you on your journeys. - Sondae
First of all Welcome Sondae I didn't get your problem What is the thing you want in you to become a better boyfriend??
I went into more detail in some of my other posts, but I want to be able to please my girlfriend and show more respect towards her by quitting porn. I feel as if my addiction (and especially looking at other women with lust) is causing a disconnect from her. I wan’t to ensure a healthy relationship before it becomes unhealthy really. Proactive thinking I guess? Thanks for the welcome!
Best thing is Just spend more and more time with her to know What is reality and what porn shows to us.