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5 days pmo for first time and worried...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Nwmat1138, Oct 27, 2018.

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  1. Nwmat1138

    Nwmat1138 Fapstronaut

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    Well i've made it to day 5 without pmo (specifically sissy hypno mostly) and i've recognised where and why I use porn. I'm so low right now tho with my situation that I also have no sex drive whatsoever and i'm worried that nothing is working at all down there...and I really don't want to check that it does with porn! Any advice?
     
  2. It's absolutely normal. Don't worry about it and absolutely do not watch porn. Almost all of us experience "limp dick" syndrom and extremely low libido at the beginning. Usually tht's what we call "flatline".

    It can come and go during the first months up to a year of your Reboot. It can last several days up to several weeks.

    The worst mistake you can do is look at porn or PMO to see if your penis still works. Trust me and the thousands of guys who did the mistake: it still works. It's just gone into a vegetative state while it and your brain are healing.

    Let your penis and brain heal. Trust the process.
     
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    Nwmat1138 Fapstronaut

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    I love your optimism over not worrying lol. I'm genuinely scared i've messed things up from a relationship perspective that it's hard not to I guess. Thank you for your advice tho I really appreciate it and i'll try my best to resist and cross my fingers I can return to normal
     
  4. WasZeusWrong?

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    Congrats on your five days. I mean it. I know it's difficult sometimes, but I think it helps not to worry about how all the equipment is working and whether we'll ever have sex again, and just focus, for some duration, on being porn-free (or PMO-free, if you're doing hard mode). After a couple of months of NoFap (with one weekend of falling off the wagon), I feel better physically than I had in a long time. I feel more like having actual sex with a human being. I'm not sure if that'll ever happen again, but it seems a good sign to want. Porn was making me almost afraid, or uncomfortable, to touch anyone erotically. I like it better this way, without the porn, even though I can see that this struggle won't end anytime soon. Good luck!
     
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  5. Nwmat1138

    Nwmat1138 Fapstronaut

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    I know I should try to stop worrying as this is probably making things worse and it's just a flatline. I really just want to be back in a functioning sexual relationship but it seems so far away. For so long I was managing my addiction whilst still being able to perform on whim even multiple times a day and then something just changed after too much hypno I guess...so now it's gonna take time to reverse those effects it looks like.
     

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