"Life is about striking the perfect balance and since nothing in life is perfect, we have to do the best with what we got." A Gaspard, Jun 4, 2018
...If you do want to save your marriages, jobs etc, best you stop the pity and call it what it is and fight. Fight hard. It's a dirty fight but a fight for your life and comes with great rewards. Please believe me when I say this. I know it is all incredibly difficult and we don't always want to risk it but we have no choice.... @Fireandash full post here: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/for-what-its-worth.195476/
An alcoholic who has stopped drinking can be just a “dry drunk” if mental attitude isn’t changed as well. Tx to @marmite lover
"...At one point it took so much willpower to resist that I felt it would be impossible to maintain that for any serious length of time, say a lifetime. But this is not true. What happens is that it gets much easier..." Tx to @YogiBlues
on relapsing to PMO: "It’s like an enjoyable car ride that ends up in the wrong place." thanks @roifwoha
"Positive liberty is self-mastery - the rule of the self, by the self. To have positive liberty is to take control of one's own mind; to be liberated from irrational fears and beliefs, from addictions, superstitions and all other forms of self-coercion..." Isiah Berlin.
Consequences on our acts are based on choice alone. Choose wisely, or it will be chosen for you. @AnxietyDude