Thanks brother I should have made it clear I'm not confused about avoiding PMO or not( I'm definitely gonna avoid it; it deprives me of my energy and concentration, and I'm already a nerd with low immunity and low physical strength.) I'm rather confused about my strategy to avoid PMO. Porn already blocked, I'm already asleep at the time my urges are at their peak. That day I had a wet dream, then had some kind of pressure in my genitals the rest of the day, forcing me to relapse. By the way you suggested, I can also say, I didn't relapse more than four times entire December (I find that awesome). I had numerous small streaks. I tried staying very busy this month and just as an improvement I'm feeling my mind to be rather free of P thoughts. Its the wet dreams and its chaser chasing me to relapse. And the pressure I feel. Two years ago I had avoided PMO for like more than 3 months. I used to feel a lot more creative and energetic. I wanna get there again. Sorry for rambling. Just wanted to share my thoughts.
@Bus Stop Potato ok I thought that you are hesitating between 7day challenge and 14day challenge. The thought that you are quiting with PMO havent even crossed my mind 4relapses/month is very good! DAY 2 I am having pretty decent urges -> time to observe them and not act out. Everytime the same -> pressure is building -> thoughts seem so pleasant and the only thing you wanna do is complete blast -> need to remind myself about how I feel afterwards. Still wanna just go ahead and act on my filthy fantasies. Its battle.
I'm in, starting on 24th. I've always have problems with porn resistance, and now it's getting easier. Basic strategy: keep learning and solving problems. get really tired and sleep without electronic devices. Pray and read bible. surpress my mind's interference
Man I'm back in the hole... After over 100 days streaks, back to being unable to stop more than a week. I'm so ashamed of myself. Day 0
Ok then, here we go. I’ve read messages on the third page of this thread now and seen everything(!), except for success stories. Write me, if you’ve achieved this challenge. For the time being, I’m on day 0.
