Hi, I am not quite sure I understood your questions. The societies we live in, that put a lot of emphasis on sex, are not healthy societies. Also, we cannot avoid being sexual. If we were not sexuals beings, there wouldn't be reproduction and therefore no humanity.
I guess a person needs a lots of Principles and Beliefs to live in a Westeen Society, I mean a person must have Knowledge and Critically Think thing before making a move, the Consumerist Culture is everywhere! A Person must be aware of that and focus on his Goals at first!