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    What silence communicates to your partner during and after a relapse

    I feel the need to provide a blunt clarification to the PA in a relationship with a partner that is injured by the behaviors around the addiction, especially when lies and lying by omission is involved and probably has been for some time. There may be some confusion or even plain ignorance about...
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    • apathy avoidant personality betrayal trauma denial dismissiveness gaslighting lies non-verbal communication relationship silence
    • Replies: 16
    • Forum: Rebooting in a Relationship
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    For now mid 50s single male incel vent.

    This is just a vent to express in the moment that loneliness is super intense now, but to solve it requires managing shame feelings. So I get stuck. I know many ideas and strategies but unable to access them today. Drinking and a porn chat binge on July 4th alone didn't help. I will probably...
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    • 50+ avoidant personality chaturbate emotional intimacy incel shame
    • Replies: 12
    • Forum: Loneliness
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    Making efforts to date but it's difficult...

    Salutations to you all. I thought I'd stop by and tell you my story. I've been on NoFap for 5 months with continual relapses every 3-4 weeks but fortunately I'm still seeing positive effects. I'm now 33 years old, never had a girlfriend, still virgin, never kissed a girl and I'm pretty sure...
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