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As we grow, some moments feel confusing and sad. It's tough realizing that we often don't understand relationships the way we should when we're younger(I mean too young). Instead of seeing connections with the opposite gender in a genuine and beautiful light, we sometimes stumble into private...

This topic interests me for quite some time. It is all over the news at least here in Switzerland. The problem explained: More and more companies are struggling with following topics: Employee retention: The ability to keep the employees Open vacancies: Nobody seems to apply for job openings...

Dear Friends, I Am New To Nofap. My Age is 20. I Am Following Nofap Hard Mode(No PMO). I Know About PM(Porn,Masturbation) But I Don't Know About O(Orgasm). It's New Word For Me. Can You Explain About 1. What is Orgasm? 2. How Orgasm Happens? 3. How To Control? Plz Help Me Friends. I Am Nofap...

I am straight male fully straight attracted to females in real life but this porn causing me trouble, first when I was in my 11th or 12th, I started watching into transwoman porn. I started watching porn in my 7th class and from that first few years I saw immense porn in the straight category and...

I’m going to try my best to get right to the point. I need urgent help because I am pretty much freaking out right now. I have a pantsing fetish (the prank where you pull someone’s pants down). My girlfriend does not know, and she is definitely not into it because she gets annoyed when I pants...

I want to Ask about my problem please let me know from what I’m going through, I am 21 year old, used to be very fit muscular boy but after that problem i gain weight like from 68 to and now 80 kg, Before 1 year was doing masturbate every 3-5 times a week and was watching a lot porn video...

I know, I'm a sick bastard, but this is stronger than me. And I'm afraid that as long as it passes with my aunts, because in the end they will be older and older, there may be a problem with my cousins. I don't know what to do with it, I lost hope that everything in my head would be normal.

Hi guys, I need your help. A month ago I lost my virginity with a girl that I like and and she was a virgin too and yesterday we had sex again. The problem is that both times I felt that my erections were weak and I couldn't manage to cum. She was worried and she asked me if I liked her because...

Hi, I have come to this website in search of help. During the last months I have experienced nocturnal emissions almost every night. That's not normal at all. These nocturnal emissions are accompanied by erotic dreams. Keep in mind, i don't masturbate, neither do i watch porn, nor have any kind...

İn the last relapse six days ago, and in the former one, i was relapsing in both till i caused an injury to my penis, so i have a scar on my penis which is not so obvious but it's there if you looked with concentration. Every time when i try to get a shower and i looked at my penis i remember...

The title is Prayer Malfunction. Lately I've been praying almost every single day usually in the mornings. Just to note I am very spiritual but not tied down to any religion groups. Just because I don't see the separation in them and why we have them in society when they bash each other. But...

Hello guys, Im day 5. I did an 19 days streak but i relapse Which i regret but yeah I have had done it, So cant go back the time. So i quit from Femdom And cuckold Like is not my mind anymore. I mean if i see a porn video with femdom or cuckold my D Of course will turn on but slowly. which im...

I’m not new but been to long since I took this serious , I have to be honest I have had a serious Period of PMO as an all day every chance I can get . But something hit me today that made me think ( which I haven’t clearly, for a while now ) what am I doing !!! And have said ‘now I’m serous ...

I have to get this out of my system and maybe someone out there has something interesting to say about this. So I have, or had, or I don't know, friend whom I have known for 12 years, which is a long time for my age. The problem is that our ways should probably part but I have so much memories...

Hello! I am 18 years old and ive been fapping to porn since i was 10. Until i was 14 i would watch normal stuff, vanilla mostly. Around that age i discovered anime and soon... Hentai, i would fap to hentai daily around 4-6 times, i coinsidered it pretty ok at the time. The problem started when i...

I keep getting porndreams and flashbacks while I am sleeping and I quickly get wet after it. This happens every 3 to 4 days. Somtimes every 2 days. My Body is exhausted from this. I don't watch porn and I don't fantasize. I do meditate every single day. But I have already relapsed couple of...

So, I have a problem with YouTube (the smart phone application). It's a great application and I listen to podcasts, various lectures and some music there. How ever the problem is I often get distracted with the recommendations and this leads to huge amounts of wasted time and sometimes to even...

Hello, everybody. I'm a new member of the community and I started my NoFap trip 12 days ago. At first I noticed the benefits, I had more energy and motivation (I felt like a lion). in the last 4 days I'm super excited, it's very hard to resist and I feel I have less energy and strength in...

I'm really ashamed about what I'm gonna write right now and I just wanna ask you please don't laugh at me and give me some advice please. I decided to stop PMO at the beggining of quarantine, knowing that it would be harder to quit PMO during these times because I spend all day at home and it's...

I have a problem and I need your help I'm 17, I'm addict to PMO since 3/4 years ago and I'm trying to stay away from it since a couple of months ago. I used to masturbate everyday once or more, and I think that has caused me premature ejaculation. I say "I think" because I'm still a virgin. I'm...

Hello, friends! I'm Dante, I'm from Russia and I'm 17 years old. Immediately I apologize for my level of English, I am very bad at this language. So, until one day everything was fine, but the next day my girlfriend came to see me. And I realized that something was wrong with me, my penis rose...

I had a bad day at work. Had severe argument with my supervisor. So just this thing was pushing me to PMO. But I gathered the courage, realised where I was wrong, called my supervisor and apologized him. Yeah so problem resolved. I didn't take excuse to PMO and will never. You do no good to me ...

I request everyone to give me some suggestions to my wierd problem. Can porn addiction leads to "speaking problem". Means i dont have social anxiety but I'm having problem in speaking. Is it linked to my porn addiction or not? Please suggest...

One time I was in a new relationship and decided to stop masturbating to achieve the 90 days NoFap challenge, because I read that it gives a lot of benefits. At day 40 I relapsed and my orgasm was painful and the semen looked brown not white. I went to the doctor and he told me that nothing was...

Picture yourself sitting at an empty table. Now add a good friend, real or imagined, sitting by your side. Maybe add one or two more. Guys you know and trust. You just know they care about you, want you to be happy, competent and strong. They accept you the way you are with your quirks and...

Hey ladies and gentleman. I've had a slight problem with dating all the time. I'll set up a online dating profile and actually meet an awesome woman that is really into me and eventually we start dating online. But the catch is always that some woman in real life starts liking me afterwords. I...

Hey everyone. So on my reboot I am looking into to purchasing some cream to help my P****. In the past I actually used Mr. Thick D**K. Which is a product for enlarging and healing. As far as I remember it didn't really help much. It did help circulation a little bit though or I was just...

Doing a post this morning before any edging. Had a new low as I watched gay P*** the other day. I edged on which I know isn't good, but afternoons are kind of a weak point for me right now.. It was a g**gb*ng video. I got curious and got harder with it then looking at Woman which is troubling...

Hi guys, I apologise if this is the wrong place to post this... please redirect me if it is cuz I don't see a queries section for Nofap.. I've been doing nofap since the start of this year... tried and failed and tried again. The latest one has me on Day 10, however now that I'm on day 12, I...

I've recently started my streak and I'm really feeling positive about it. As in, I feel like this will be breat and don't (yet?) feel the struggle, also thanks to exercising and eauting well. The one thing that slightly worries me, is that I left an account on a very popular website with lots...

I' m a virgin, I've never had sex before. On the eve of my presumed first sex before I could insert I was already gushing out I felt embarrassed and ashamed. I know this isn't normal the few people I talked to said i was over excited that was why it happened that way. To be honest deep down I...

For this post I am going to talk as a guy as I am a guy and I wanted to reflect why it’s become a problem for guys. As guys, as humans, how did we let this problem become so big ? How did we ignore or live with it for so long ? I am 30 and I started watching porn at 12. That means I have...

Hello my future friends I'm really happy that I've found a place full of good people who are willing to help each other to defeat this bad habit. Ok so the problem is I'm always thinking about it i can stop like for a week but i come back to it hungrier than before. I like to read but i feel...

Hello, I am a 20 year old male living in Texas. I have been on NoFap since late September. I've had some bumps in the road along the way, where I quit the day counter for edging, but I have not O'd voluntarily in quite a while. I have never made it this far on NoFap before. I have never been...

Hello everyone, I am a man, 32 years old ( unmarried for sorry ), I have been masturbating for a very long time ( about 10 years ), every time I set a goal, I fail and am going back to this bad habit. I am planning to get married but I am afraid of not being on my natural strength because of...

Dear fellows, This is my first post on this subreddit and I am happy to do the first step. As seen above, I started my journey 54 days ago, motivating myself from deleting PMO from my brain-harddrive. Cut the long story short: Pros - feeling more happy, confident in every decision made and...

Hi guys Has anybody experienced while being on a very long nofap streak that he(she) has seen a massive improvement in (dandruff) flaking scalp skin, eyebrows skin, mustache, beard areas skin? (something similar to psoriasis but not so bad) Thanks for any input.

Hi all, a while ago I signed up to NoFap and been idle on the page, but so far I'm 18 days without PM, I do not speak English very well so usobun translator. Finally I return to the page because I have a huge doubt, Wednesday night I had a wet dream, at first I worried but after investigating I...

whaddup nofappers. Im not new to this forum but today I Wanted to share My problem because I need Some advice. So.. first of all Im a 26 year old male, And Im currenly at 65 days of nofap. It Took me almost a year to acomplish this. But anyway.. Im dating this hot girl and we wanted to have...

Before joining NoFap, I was already trying to fix myself but I couldn't. I have been on NoFap for 3 days but I have had to reset my counter twice. There is nothing wrong with the panic button or all of the resources that state the reasons why I should resist the urges but controlling myself is...

Hello guys I used to masturbate 3 to 4 times a day My age is 22 I'm masturbating 4rm the age of 13 And now a days used to do it alot A 2 year ago I got gf we used to have call sex or vedio sex I used to masturbate 2 r 3 times a day . A year ago lost my distance relationship And Now a days...

Hello, a 20 years old guy. To summarize my problem. I watched porn for the first time when I was 14 years, it became a problem 3 years ago. Now I'm 20 and I didn't make any progress since then. There is a problem. I am a Christian , I grew up with Christian values. I love girls and never had...

Sorry my bad english. I am from indonesia I need an advice from you, i am 18yo and i have PMO since 10. I have through with many ways to overcome this bad habit, i am so stressful with this, but i can't stop this pmo, my best streak 70+ days only, can't farther than this. I joined nofap since...

In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful **Before I start, I would like to say the following to the reader: You will not agree to everything that is written here. Thus, please keep an open mind and take whatever benefit you want from this thread and simply throw out whatever you...

Hey guys, so my problem is, that I have a foot fetish which literally controls my life. It isn't like that I want to get rid of it... I just want to enjoy other body parts more like ass and so on... Since I never had a girlfriend because of my low self esteem, I never tried anything out. Is...

The very first post I saw on the internet (20 years ago) that helped me to recognize and understand my problem. Let me share it here. -- The problem Many of us felt short, inferior, lonely and anxious. Our inner life never corresponded with what we saw on the outside with others. As a child...

Ok guys so two nights ago i was just thinking before falling asleep and this thought came into mind, hence the title of this post. I felt like i made a new discovery and just HAD to get up and write about it. So here i am sharing it to you guys. Maybe its just common sense and or somebody...

Hi All, I'm a 21 year old guy, student engineer, part-time farmer and porn addict. Honestly, I don't know where to start in terms of recovery, but I am hopeful that someone here can point me in the right direction. This addiction is ruining my life and it grows every time I feed it. I am at a...

When I try nofap (again), the loop start. Here you go: 1. I so... tired, becouse I fap to much. 2. Start nofap 3. First few days normal. 4. My T levels go up... 5. I have a fetish about incrising my penis size to enormous and un-pratical sizes. 6. I'm starting to fascinate my penis (yep I know...

Guys, I think I have a terrible date when the urge hits and it always happens on a Thursday of every 2 weeks. And thinking about it now... how the hell did i forget this! anyway i'm going to take action from now on when that happens every 2 weeks. But on the side note does this happen to anyone...

Hi I dont't masturbate na watch porn for 38 days. I already noticed that I am more confident and people started respecting me more and being more friendly to me. I have also noticed that I had few eye contacts with girls on streets and when I look at the girl she looks back at me. I am decent...

Hello my name is "Marty Bryant". Or is it? Either way that is besides the point. I am 23 years old living in the good ol' sunshine state. Just graduated college and am still undecided on the career path I would like to take. Stuck between medicine and music. With the most freedom and...

I'm about two weeks in (I don't use a counter) and I've spent my time in a summer job internship program and within this program I met this cute girl and I had a great time with her and some friends during the program and eventually my friends pushed me to let her know how I felt about her. I...

I shot a lot of pictures and videos with my ex and present girlfriend. Mainly just nude photography, but also porn. It is extremely hard for me to erase it, as this are actually my memories. (not to mention not that bad as well) i feel that i will regret it in like 20 years time if i erase it...

I've decided to create this thread, so we can debate and find an ultimate solution this our problem. Let us know all the information and personal thoughts you've got on this subject.

Hey everyone whats up everyone! I'm just going to be straight to the point. Basically my interactions with women are fine, hell at the club I often get approached first (enough times to give me more then plenty of chances). I always turn women down and show disinterest due to my own feelings of...

Hi there, I have found that trying to cut the habit is harder than it seems. I usually get from 3 weeks to 1 1/2 months without masterbaiting, but then I cant help myself. Its difficult to "get it up" because of this. Im ashamed alot of the time. I've improved in the last 8 months(I used to fap...

Hi all. I am new here. I want to tell you their are literally 2 personality in me. One is right other is demon. Once 2-3 years back I had a bad habit of masturbating daily but I controlled as I am highly motivated until that demon shows again. Now my problem is not directly masturbation but...

Hi, I'm a man from Spain. I admit I have a problem with sex. I want to masturbate very often and if I do not it gives me anguish and pornographic images come to my head tempting me to end up masturbating. For now the only sex I have is with my wife and I have been a week without masturbating...

So for the past couple of weeks I've had this terrible problem. Everyday I deal with discomfort in my crotch. What usually happens is it gets really moist down there and my balls stick to my leg. It feels like my underwear are pinching me, but I think it's my balls sticking to my leg. I think...

Dear fellas, I am Fapstronaut@day32 , 25 years old male , single , virgin. I was indulged in PMO since 13. It is with great willpower that finally I have started my nofap journey. I feel liberated. During my last 4 - 5 years , along with with the habit of PMO, I unconditionally started a...

"You have a Problem." This is a statement that I've heard everywhere. Reality television. Underdog stories. Rock bottom stories. I've heard a lot of people say it to other people. Usually when they're laying spread eagle on the coffee table, surrounded by their vice of choice. Rarely is real...

I am not misogynistic, so please don't go reporting me for some bs. This will be the last post I make ever here on NoFap. I will say some of the stuff on her might not be what you want to here but its the truth. 1) Porn and PIED I want to share with you all what I have observed to be the...