30 day to regain sensitivity and heal cuts!

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1 month

New Fapstronaut
Hello everyone, I am 19 and decided to make an account because I am in a very bad situation. Dreamt of having sex all my life. I masturbate everyday(4 times average) sometimes even 3 times in a row. The day finally comes and things couldn't have gotten any worse.

Long story short, I finally got a bj but couldn't feel anything, couldn't even ejaculate, lost my boner in a couple minutes of bj.

A month later ,I finally meet the girl again, we decide to have sex, but couldn't feel anything except a burning sensation from the cuts on my penis which was caused due to my aggressive masturbation technique, I again go soft in minutes.(couldn't ejaculate)

I have another month till I get to see her and I just want to feel normal like everyone else. I hope one month of restraining from masturbation will do the trick

Will keep y'all updated!

P.s -did anyone else have the same problem?(death grip)
 
Heyyy welcome to the NoFap forum : ) It's nice to see you here fighting the good fight alongside us!


First let me go ahead and drop some helpful links for you:

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Here is just some advice:


First and foremost please take a look at each section in the forum, there might be something(s) you may find of big help to you. Feel free to post there :+)


Then secondly I just advise you to be active on your profile(as there a few active people in the profile section). Please start by choosing an avatar and then make daily status posts to show you're active and needing support/encouragement. They've also got a neat little feature that shows freshly posted statuses for all users to see. People will find your profile and give you encouragement/support.


Theres a portion of people who love communicating in the profile section..(it should be and is )mostly spportive talk but it doesn't hurt to deviate from supportive talk. It would be great to have you join in and support others in the threads, profiles, and journal. Make sure and be grateful for the help you received and give some help after receiving some. Invest in some people's journeys. We could always use your help and in return you shall receive some as well!


Thirdly, You should also highly consider creating a public journal/log (in the appropriate section for you) and write about your days in more depth for us members to follow along your journey and offer support to you by way of posting in your journal.


Last but not least: Good luck on your journey here, make sure to really give it a try with all your heart!
 
Hi there... :)
Welcome to the community!
Success comes to those who strive for it. I’m sure you’ll be successful in your goals one day.
Good luck!
 
Hi, welcome to the community

I would recommend you to stay in touch with members and read their success stories. You may also learn tricks to avoid the short-term pleasure and to face the temptations.

Be AWARE of your habits and control what you see and what/who you spend your time with.

It's also important to limit the usage of social media. In addition, never be free! Use your free time as much as possible and do sports, exercise, attend classes, etc.

This video contains everything that you need to know about porn addiction. Lastly, here is a collection of ways to deal with the urges which worked great for me.

֍ You got this my friend ֍​
 
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