35 and Older Accountability Group

Artifact, i hope you will not quit and leave the Group, maybe a i missunderstood your message.

I am 45 y.o. on day 3 very active . Would like to join this Group . Is there space?

Thank you

 

@artifact, while on the topic of the rankings, I have a suggestion. Currently, #9 is at 30 days, #s 10,11 and 12 are at 29 and 13 at 23. I think they should be labeled like this:

9. ***** 30 days
10. ***** 29 days
10. ***** 29 days
10. ***** 29 days
13. ***** 23 days

This more accurately reflects how those three are in fact tied and not 3 places apart. All three are working on PM, however, if one of them were working on PMO for example, that would be the tiebreaker. So that person would be #10, and the other two tied at #11, followed by #13. Just an idea.

 

Hello

I'd like to join this group please. Is there space? I'm a 45 year-old long-term addict, trying to recover.

Thanks

 

Welcome. This is a great place! Its hard, but worth it.

 

Hi guys. I know I haven´t been sharing much, but I´m a little froze, been thinking about quitting a couple of times, a lot of things going thru mi mind ( like everyone else off course) and I just been there in that place, about to press the button... kept my self busy, doing some surfing, going out with friends, studying, producing videos, but every night, I go to bet, and its just me and my memories, and those memories are heavy, I´ve been putting so much crap in my head for so long... well, still here. Love you guys.

 

@srussell way to go!!!!!! congrats friend. Let us know how you feel!!!

 

I did it: 30 days of reboot. It feels like I had something to celebrate...
thx and good luck everybody!

 

Congrats my friend! and yes!!! celebrate, eat something nice, buy something for yourself, whatever you feel is a celebration!!! you need those rewards. Let us know what you did.

 

Congrats Namaste1977! It seems like we both girls will have celebration today as I'm hitting 50 today!

 

Congratulations mi amigas!! Keep going! Keep going!!!

 

I'm gonna gate crash your girl party. 80 today!

 

Congrats! How are you feeling having come this far?

 

Yes i am

 

I still want to M but have very little desire to watch porn which is amazing. I can now use my ipad to read in bed at night without fear of accessing websites.

More generally I feel like I have come a long way but still have some distance to go. Most important area of growth is being able to face this challenge with genuine confidence. 80 days has taught me that I can definitely do this if I stick to my good habits. I am not intimidated by 'the mountain' like when I first started.

 

Some days are hard and I have to just get out of the house and walk and its so cold outside these days brrrrr, makes one forget everything else ha.

Started going to the gym again to use up some energy after a little gap of few days as I hurt my ankle (I think) while doing the elliptical machine - I hadn't tried that equipment in over a month.

Weekends are okay as long as I go out and meet a friend and spend at least half a day at their place. It helps staying away from my room.

Seeing great progress in the group!! Keep up the good work ya'll.