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50 days free but still have ED

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by BradM6016, Jan 13, 2018.

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  1. Jan 13, 2018 #1
    BradM6016

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    I was with this girl last night and it was the first time in a long time that I had a girl over. Since I had been rebooting for the last fifty days, I thought that I was in the clear and decided to give sex a shot. I was hard at first but after we began making out for a bit, I began to lose my erection. This got me confused. I know that abstaining from porn is great for you but one would think that after fifty days you would be ready to go to pound town on a girl.
    I didn't realize it at the time, but i was addicted to porn at the end of middle school all the way through high school. This is my third attempt at a reboot and it is my second longest streak so far. I am not sure how long it will take until I am fully recovered but I will go for as long as it takes. I believe in this process.
    I am feeling tremendous in other areas. I feel more focused in school, I have more of a drive to get things done, my voice feels deeper and some of my social anxiety has gone away. Semen retention works but I want to be able to blow a girl's mind in bed. I have not been able to do that. That is my only concern right now.
     
    BradM6016, Jan 13, 2018
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  2. Jan 13, 2018 #2
    throwaway11

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    I'm on day 74. I peeked at porn briefly the other day for like 10 seconds and didn't even get remotely hard. My dick keeps feeling all shrunken like it's going back into my body and I've been sorta depressed because I have a gf and I haven't been able to get it up. Around day 40 or so I felt a little activity in my dick but not enough to wanna have sex. People have told me it's flatline but idk how I could still have that at day 74. I'm almost to day 90 with like no benefit!
     
    throwaway11, Jan 13, 2018
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  3. Jan 13, 2018 #3
    Mikeright

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    Just Keep going. I have the same problem. Porn won't make it better.
     
    Mikeright, Jan 13, 2018
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  4. Jan 13, 2018 #4
    throwaway11

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    How long do you think until any progress signs? I don't even wake up with wood. I feel pretty depressed. I've definitely rewired which is said to speed things up. I hate this, man. You said you have a gf too and it isn't going up?
     
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  5. Jan 13, 2018 #5
    Mikeright

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    I don't have a girlfriend not since I was 11 years old. I started fapping instead.

    Failed every time I've been with a girl.

    What I started doing in hope in recovering:
    -Nofap
    -Gym training
    -D vitamin, zink and magnesium supplemente
    -Take a walk on a daily basis
    -Stopped being a "Nice Guy"
    -Focusing more on myself and My own life more than others.
    -Cold Showers
    -Go out of my Comfort zone
    -Doing new things, trying getting a new job

    What I wanna do:
    -Go on a date
    -Talk with women
    -Meditating
    -Limit social media
    -Limit computer games
    -Not looking and seeing a women as a sex object all THE time and accepting that everything isnt about sex
     
    Mikeright, Jan 13, 2018
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