Hey guys and girls I just stared nofap this past week hoping and believing to alleviate or cure my premature ejaculation. I've been using porn since about the age of 12 and am now 24. I would masturbate purely with the intention of just having an orgasm. I remember when I was younger the process was so long and would either fast forward or masturbate intensely fast. Fast forward 12 year and I've apparently perfected the fucking process. Now it takes longer to find a video than to actually orgasm. I literally can and do pop within 15 to 20 seconds ,and it was never was a relevant problem until I had my first girlfriend back when I was 21. We dated for a little less than a year. The relationship was good but the sex was horrible. I couldn't satisfy her to any extent and would pop within a minute, if that. Didn't help that she was drop dead gorgeous, but regardless I tried everything and everything failed. I've been looking for similar stories and have had nothing to somewhat relate. I feel different I guess because pre ejaculatory sex is the only thing I know. I also feel like I cant date my only girlfriend left because of the sex and that led to resentment. Id like to think I'm a good looking guy and women flirt and ask me to hang out but idk I guess I don't want to put another person through that because then ill feel like shit for not being able to satisfy a women. Just kind of dreading explaining that to someone because I feel I have to tell them prior to any physical activity.
But regardless I tread on with hope of rebooting my system and gaining self control throughout. I don't expect a miracle overnight, but if anyone who has been through a situation similar to mine, please chime in I would like to know what I'm looking like.
But regardless I tread on with hope of rebooting my system and gaining self control throughout. I don't expect a miracle overnight, but if anyone who has been through a situation similar to mine, please chime in I would like to know what I'm looking like.
