All I see is couples

You need to reboot. Try to stay away from PMO, and other substances.

Try to do atleast 30 days.

 

I know you're referring to obese women but that's not an accurate assessment because obese women in the modern dating world have more options than average men. Again its called Hoeflation.

 

It matters, who told you it doesn't. Aren't you 33? People figire this crap in thier 20's. What the fuck where you doing then? Playing video games too many.

Your neediness is a state pal. You are in a mental and emotional state of lack. There's a void in your life that you are trying to fill with a relationship. Because you have been fed this idea that relationships cure that emotional longing. What you need is not a relationship, but to get your crap together.

You don't need another person to feel complete. When your life is in order, you hit that 20 day mark, you have things in your life that gives you fulfillment, you won't be bitching so much about a thing like relationship.

 

I think i should say the best advice i think i heard in recent time.

Make a list of qualities you want to have in the person you wanna date.
And then be That person.
It will take time and who knows, what can happen. Good luck mate

 

Life isn't just about how people look; that matters, but it's not everything. Shows like porn and dramas can give us the wrong idea. Relationships can be with one person, or you can choose to be with more than one for intimacy(by marrying u know). But it's important to know that being happy isn't just about physical stuff. If you always try to find satisfaction with different people, you might never be truly happy because there will always be someone you think is better. Real happiness is about more than just looks. Relationship to protect, serve, travel and family values. See, the dramas and movies they show the ideal and happy ending like a happy couple u know, instead of a person who satisfy his desires from anyone he'd like to.

 

Bro, it’s Hoeflation. It’s not really you. I feel like an incel sometimes but I know I’m not since I’ve had girlfriends and gotten laid before.

 

Unless you’re a tall Chad or billionaire, these modern women want nothing to do with you; it’s called Hoeflation.

Oh yeah I forgot, or unless you’re Tyrone (a Black Man).

 

Life will be miserable if we keep waiting and depending on that "missing piece". Very few, if any, truly understand me. Nonetheless, I keep working and improving myself. I've felt the loneliness before, and still do a lot of the time. Somethings I don't have control over: The state of the world, the state of dating/marriage, and the state of people. I'd be miserable if I focused on that or on what I lacked. I've accepted my reality as it stands, I've accepted I may be alone most of the time until and appointed time comes for me. Until then, I will work and try to be content.

Hope this helps, this is how I approached this feeling.

 

Are you a virgin bro?

 

This is really an unprecedented time in history. You can thank social media for it. Instagram is really a successful PsyOp for them. Plain Janes and even not so cute women feeling they’re only entitled to only the handsomest Chads and that they’re too good for average men. Brutal.

 

Yes

 

Yeah, as someone who has been in a few relationships with some very beautiful women, I will say that eventually the novelty of her beauty will wear off, and if she doesn’t possess good character and virtues in addition to her physical attractiveness, she may as well have been the ugliest gal in the world. Beauty really is a dime a dozen when it comes down to it, and the most blessed Men are married to women that are not a Hottie or possess Model looks but her worth is far more than rubies and she brings much more to the table for her husband than just physical attractiveness.

 

We all need to read this 10 times a day as it breaks down a huge lie every pmo addict is believing in.

Thanks for sharing.

 

Thanks Roady, i learned this the hard way.

 

You expressed the same feeling I used to feel and I still feel so.
It is all about self-improvement without having a desire for instant and shortcut success. Because haste made me do things in a hurry or satisfy my own nerves at any cost. But in reality, there is patience, questions, thinking and a gap without even thinking about that particular stuff.
I feel like desire is like an energy that can be transformed from one form to another. But for this moment, it is mobile and high-speed Internet that makes that energy drain instead of a useful task that can be there to fulfil that desire.
For example, a man who wishes to marry soon would do work his personality, body shape and finance for which he'd do studies, gym and job/business effort instead just finding a source of please from the ease a few clicks. So, he would just stop thinking about intimate stuff rather would feel the exercise, task study and earning as pleasures as they are meany to grant him with a satisfied relationships in the long run.
But yes, we can change ourselves, by educating or I believe by even thinking about self improvement in an honest way.

 

But as it is concerned the issue for we are all here I reflected upon religion because no parents, no teachers, no coach or anything like that addressed me for this issue but there is Quraan that says "Lower your gaze"
I think why? Like there must be a practical reason why Allah Almighty decided ourselves to lower our intimacy when it comes to random people in society.
And I thought of an animal, who would think about hunger and eating whenever he sees food but a man would not rather he would think about how much it costs either good for me or not and whether the food is given to me as an act of kindness or there will be humiliation in someway. An animal would think about sex and reproduction whenever he sees an opposite gender around him like with anyone out. But a Man would interpret it, unlike an animal. Humans would look upon having someone who would go the long way with him/her and the values upon which a society standsthe values upon which a society stands. But during this age we The Homo sapiens are discussing whether we should satisfy ourselves with the women in pixels behind the screen or not or if so how to control this behaviour, including me, which sucks you know.
The only answer is to stop expecting lustful satisfaction from Mobile screens and further on from random people out there we don't know about properly.
When I said to my mind that whatever there is around me or even If that woman somehow drags me from my sofa into the mobile phone where they do those bad things I would damn not arouse my gonads for lust as I'm not supposed to! I would look upon bundle of stuff but how I respond matters. Either I let myself arouse a.id all this matters. That is why I'm answerable to Allah on the day Judgment.
I heard Andrew Tate saying, the only thing you have control over is your thinking, not the people, the internet, the government, what someone wears, eats or does exactly...
Be a Homo sapien that is Human being.

 

Elknight and everyone looking for the answers.
You do it wrong way. This is your solitary Voyage. You are all fucking sad but why? Beacuse some hoes get more attention than they should. Yes, this is caused by todays world as someone mentioned before. Why dont you just turn your back to it? To them? To everyone and everything? Use your resentment as a fuel to become more of a man, more of an animal. Observe and learn. Open your mind, free yourself from everything. Break bad. You want to win? There is just one direction. You are seeing things in front of you instead turning your eyes to yourself. Say out loud: I am the God and Satan is my father. Then dive deep into this trip of your ego. I guarantee you that every answer will come and every wish will fill. Just revolt.

 

I am the god, satan is my father?

Yeah, tell that to your boss at work. Tell le if he didn't make you clean his balls