(Forgive my english pls) Hi all, I'm a 23 y/o guy who has never had a girlfriend. I used to be shy in the past years, but I have become more "selfsecure". Now I have the power to make laugh some person. I am really really devoted when I'm trying to date someone and truly dedicated, taking care of my appearance and stuff like that, I have romantic ideas, etc. But every time I've tried, it result in the same story. The endless story is this: I met a girl, we start talking, then we start dating, talking more, adding more confidence to the relationship, I try to let her know what are my feelings, sometimes she just ignores or say something like "aww that's so cute", we keep talking and when the status of the relationship is in the highest level, things start to get bad. It happens when I say to her something that "hey, I like you, really really, your personality, your appearance etc, this fact and this fact and this fact..etc", obviously I don't say that literally, but that is in of kind of way the main message. So here's when she say to me the eternal and boring words: "wow I don't know what to say, I always saw you as a friend, I don't have time, I am not interested, It's not the time, you are a great person, you deserve more, I'm sure that you are going to get someone better, I wish you the best...etc etc etc"...every time it's a different excuse that result in the same truth "I DON'T WANT". I respect that, you know, because she's free and I'm no one to force her. But, 2 or 3 weeks later always FREAKIN' ALWAYS I realize that somehow she's or dating or in a relationship with someone else. So I always date liars. I used to make all of this situations the perfect excuse to do M or see P. But recently I'm changing that. But I'm losing faith, I am getting bored of this freakin' shit, honestly, I don't know if I'm being a really good person that they get scared. I don't know and I'm tired of trying. And I want to become more selfish but I can't, I want to get rid of my feelings. I know that moths later I am gonna fall in love with someone else. I HATE THIS, IT'S AN ANNOYING ENDLESS BUCLE.