Anybody heard of karezza?

Has anyone heard of karezza? It is talked about in the book "Cupid's Poison Arrow" by Marnia Robinson. Originally, my therapist recommended it to me but it took me a while to finally buy the book. When I finally picked it up, I was amazed.

By the way, Marnia Robinson is the wife of Gary Wilson (founder of your brain on porn).

In it, she talks about everything from porn addiction to HOCD. But interestingly, she introduces this idea of karezza which is basically sex without orgasm. She even gives this road map for trying it out. It's truly incredible.

Does anyone here have experience with this type of sex? I truly believe that this is the future of sex. And one of her main points is that orgasm (for both men and women) even during sex can lead to withdrawal. She even invites women to explore the idea of sex without orgasm.

I think her book is the solution for men looking to break their addiction to PMO but still have sex in a truly fulfilling manner...

 

I personally think that it should be the main way for intercourse bc once you start having O's all the time again then you start associating the withdrawal to your partner which eventually turns into a bad cycle. This is one of Marnia's main points.

 

Yes exactly, I believe that this form of sexual intercourse is the best possible kind in order to sustain mutual long term desire/bonding.

 

Yeah that book is incredible. I've been trying to get my girlfriend on board with it and she's opening up to it more and more.

 

Interesting, how did u come about this conclusion? Just through experience or u heard about karezza/tantra firsthand and then your experience confirmed it?

 

Yeah and the main point of Karezza is to have the majority of your sex life be that way bc what ends up happening if you just carelessly ejaculate all the time is that you start to associate that feeling of disappointment and loss of vitality to your partner.

 

There we go, we've got further confirmation

 

Yeah man, most people don't know how to use sex to transmute their energy and enhance their lives. Most people just use it as a way to imitate porn scenes and escape from life. Elliott Hulse says that sex is just needy love.

 

That is what I'm talking about! Let us know what u think!

 

Yeah, I mean most people aren't interested in this stuff to begin with. However, those of us that have a true interest on the subject and who are dedicated to living life in a powerful way shouldn't find this practice too hard in the long run. Maybe in the short term, it would be tough but that's it.