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At Day 80, but urges are ultra strong.. :(

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Dailydoer, Jun 23, 2015.

  1. Dailydoer

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    I have successfully managed to stay PMO (Porn, Masturbation, Orgasm) free for 80 days now. But now the urges are stronger than ever. Even stronger than they were during the first few days of my journey. I just don't know how to control 'em. I went outside for a walk, then came back home and it was all the same. They are so strong, I can fuck a tree tbh! (jk) Please help me guys, I don't want to go back to the same person I was. I know if I give up, it will be a huge fall for me. What should I do? I am trying my best to keep PMO out of my head but somehow it just pops up. And I start fantasizing about women in my head. Your response will be highly appreciated. Thank you for reading.
     
  2. Verhart

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    1. Find some super hard workout http://neilarey.com/
    2. Go BEASTMODE
    3. Take cold shower
    4. Listen to this
    5. Meditate
    6. (optional, if still getting urges) go for this this
    7. Get a cold shower
    8. If you still have energy for fapping I can congratulate you personally. If not - mission done. Go to sleep.

    There might be a day when I will fap. But it ain't today!

    Ps. For quality lecture I recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy.

    You are welcome buddy :)
     
  3. Speshal_K_1997

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    wow.. 80 DAYS!!! my journey has only just begun.. im only on day 2 lol, but uh... i think its ok for you to fap jus once & then wait another month.. or you may develope blue balls or testiclular cancer...
     
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  4. Dailydoer

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    Thanks a lot bro. Will try all this esp that soudtrack you mentioned. Btw, I was able to control it somehow and about to sleep so can't listen to it now. Will listen to it tomorrow and let you know. Thanks a lot
     
  5. Dailydoer

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    The problem is after fapping, I cannot wait one month. I'll do it again the very next day too, then the next day until I'm extremely exhausted and feel like a piece of shit. In fact that was a major reason why I have quit PMO. Thanks for the response btw. Really appreciate it
     
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  6. Mr_Annon

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    Know how you feel brother done that in the past but only lasted 12 days so but remember to "never never give up!" YOU CAN DO THIS you have done 80 days! Congrats!
    Just carry on beat your urge thing the mental strength which you have! Do exercises do as many pushups as possible then the urge should go away.
     
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  7. numpty

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    You struggled for 80days!! And you want to give up??? Get a grip the finishing line is a measly 10 days away!

    Your at 80 am at 4... you do it you finish last place!

    Think of what you WAS 80 days ago a measly twerp with no energy... think of what you are NOW! A true man with a fully loaded gun reedy to sling when you meet that special woman...
     
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  8. Mr_Annon

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    Now that's an awesome way to some it up!
     
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  9. Knight Solaire

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    I understand your pain and I know how it feels to struggle at 80ish days. If you still feel like you are having problems tonight or tomorrow, just pm me. We talk or help keep your mind off of things.

    Just remember that relapsing will take you from "almost 90 days!" to "I relapsed today and I have to start over"

    You don't want that feeling ever my friend.
     
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  10. Dailydoer

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    Thank man. You cracked me up. I really appreciate it man
     
    Last edited: Jun 24, 2015
  11. Dailydoer

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    Luckily somehow I managed to stay away from it for another day :). What you said is really true and I definitely don't want that feeling. Thanks man.
     
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  12. Dailydoer

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    Thanks a lot. Will try to do as much exercise as I can.
     
  13. bartledoo

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    I can relate to you. 71 days.

    Just keep yourself busy every part of the day. Fill up all the free time you have with activities. I just came back from hiking and swimming at a local mountain.

    I.E. don't take any chances. If you're sitting at the computer bored, and its been 80 days since fapping, thats dangerous stuff.
     
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  14. Dailydoer

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    I think porn is no longer what I crave. It no longer arouses me. It now seems disgusting to me. But, as far as reality is concerned, I'm one crazy hornball right now. I hope this goes away soon
     
  15. Immanuel

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    Stick in there, bro! The last bit of my 90 days was hard too. I assure you that it gets easier. I can also assure you that it won't get easier if you go back to PMO. The best thing that you can do right now is get your mind off sex and onto something else.
     
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  16. Dailydoer

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    Thank you everyone! I'm feeling pretty good now! The urges are gone. I had morning wood this morning. Everything's alright :)
     
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    Go have sex! Teach your mind that the only way the urge will get satisfied is with a woman.
     
  19. KingRecover17

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    Yea those urges get really strong man lol. I remember when I was Day 34 and those were so strong I was freaking out and I wanted to look at Porn so bad that urge was crazy haha, but I had to calm myself down and take my mind off Porn, then things got better. Remember you decide if you want to relapse or not, you call the shots. But I believe you will resist the temptation and that you will keep your streak going!!! :cool:
     
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  20. zippytime

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    Yup it was the same for me day 60-70 were a challenge and I was teenage horn again. Well done for not giving in. I think for me the numerical target of 90days was a trigger in its self. Once past it I just stopped thinking about the days. And somehow the whole thing just became 2nd nature. I don't think about P and just focus on being the version of me I always wanted to be.
     
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