Can Men and Women Just Be Friends?

It’s cool if you think it’s normal. I just don’t see why you would go tit for tat with me if you think there’s nothing wrong with it.

 

You sadly have never had the awesome experience of having a lesbian as one of your best friends. I have one and she’s definitely considered “bro” status in my book, or as I like to call her brosette.

 

Wanting to fuck your friends has no correlation to a substance abuse chemical addiction. One is excersising self control, the other is a hardcore heavy addiction. Nice comparison.

 

Well said

 

The problem is you “alpha males” think it’s pussy to talk to a female for any other reason besides getting in their pants. You believe it’s what your “programmed to do” and it’s “normal”. And to that I say you are a bunch of animals.

It’s like being a human being talking to a fellow human being is “lame” or “not man enough”.

What is it about women that is so alien that you can’t have enough common ground to be FRIENDS or ACQUAINTANCES.

5/10 or more the girl you’re drooling over has no interest in you and you’re just being a creep by secretly wanting to bang her. You can never just let it be and develop a mutual non interest in someone. You HAVE to want to fuck them. Gtfo

Is it really that out of the blue just to treat one woman in your life like a normal person or any other Joe Shmoe

You guys are obsessed with fucking. Just admit lol
Stop running around in circles saying “well some people think it’s normal” “I’m not the only one”
Lmao this is pathetic
Yeah bro chasing pussy your whole life wondering why you’re miserable is so cool and alpha

Having a compulsive porn addiction is animal behavior. Wanting to screw anything that walks is also animal behavior.

You guys sound like the type of guys to go on dates with some one you have no interest in their personality just cause they have a big ass. Then after it’s done you regret it and feel like shit.

 

I'm not "failing to recognize" anything. I have no issue with you, an individual, saying that for the sake of avoiding temptation, you find it healthier to not have female friends. If that's what you need to do, cool, do it. I dont think it's the mark of a very healthy individual, though, for that to be necessary. Just like avoiding all sexual triggers is not the mark of a healthy individual. It's the mark of someone who has some serious issues with addiction and a messed up mindset, which most all of us have here.

Heres the problem here. You keep bringing up things that are wrong about me, regarding porn addiction, as if I'm being hypocritical. But I'm not, at all, because I fully recognize that I'm messed up and not healthy in the sexuality department, and I'm trying to fix that problem. The difference is that you dont seem to see your mindset about women and wanting to have sex with anything that walks and has a vagina as a problem.

If you were saying to me that due to your problematic view of women as sex objects, you find it best to temporarily guard yourself by not having female friends as temptations, until you can work on yourself and better yourself and become healthier in that department, then I would have zero issue with that. But that's not what you're saying, so it's not comparable to my porn addiction. I'm not over here saying "well I love porn and people watch porn all the time. Stop denying reality. Everybody watches porn, it's how we are wired and its totally natural and healthy." If I were saying all if that, then that would be an equal comparison. But then again, if that was my mindset, I wouldnt be here.

 

“Normal”

 

It's exactly the same justification most people use for porn. It seems odd to me that someone can recognize that one of those is wrong and be completely blind to the other.

 

It’s not that people can’t have their own issues. It’s that people don’t even think their issue is an issue and deny it when others point it out.