What is creepyiness from a female perspective? Isn't it's just misjudged intention of the person who tries to approach the woman. Is it all a matter of perspective? Radiohead's Creep comes to mind. Your thoughts? Say, I wanted to do something nice and wrote a novel to a stranger I liked. Creepy? From her side, most likely, especially if it is about my love to her. Strangers are creepy to begin with, I think from a perspective of seeing people inherently bad, and female's side, where the question of rape is concerned. Would it be creepy from the writer's viewpoint? A rapist wouldn't write a book, he would rape. So, the intentions were noble, if only clouded by hormones of love. :\ How do we resolve this? "Creepy." thing. A strange thing. Must be a defense mechanism, a boundaries thing.