Do not ignore your urges

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by BravelyKegger, Apr 16, 2019.

  1. BravelyKegger

    BravelyKegger Fapstronaut

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    I believe one of the most unproductive things someone can do Is to simply ignore your urges, simply wait for them to die out. I have been dabbling with energy moving and energy control, i believe it is a waste to simply let all that sexual energy dissipate, you need to harness it and use it for your own power. I don't know yet what to do with the energy but do know how to move it around.
     
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  2. toby gee

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    great idea. Can you please advise one or two things to do with the energy that may be as interesting and still productive?
     
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  3. sometimes the urges go away themselves, sometimes the I fight the urges.
     
  4. BravelyKegger

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    Goode question, I am still studying that and will get back to you.
     
  5. I think meditation and reading is the best opition
     
  6. Gladiatori

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    Agree! U block this sex energy it will become stuck in you and come out other ways. I believe accept this energy and let it flow through is best.
     
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  7. Gladiatori

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    one damn problem guys.. our sex drive is being manipulated/exaggerated VIA P/MEDIA + LADIEZ BLATENT Slutwwear. We are men and cant stop from looking... wtf. Like islam they wear hijab.. cause they know men have weaknezzzz for this. IMO not all our fault. is the ladiez too. alot!
     
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  8. maz20

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    Lol NoFap/NoPMO is just the natural thing that happens when you don't have regular actual sex. Those without a respect for this nature seem to end up either "relapsing" (to relieve "that sexual frustration") or "flatlining" (to reject anything sexual/sexually-related because it causes "that sexual frustration").

    They do that because Islamic societies (if not Islam itself) are sexually repressive. When you keep a population of humans repressed from natural human sexuality it makes them easier to control from a government (and religious) power standpoint. And many a caliphate had their own "harems" too all the while preaching bs to the rest of the populace. Oh and even hiring eunuchs around the palace walls ; )

    Anyway, if you guys are getting "urges" for actual sex then go have/pursue actual sex!

    *Edit: btw that reminds me
    Well the United States (or even social media in general) is not a sexually repressive place. That said if you aren't having regular actual sex (or exist in some form of "sexual poverty"), go seek/pursue it -- and don't be ashamed to be coming from some place of "sexual poverty" (even if you're surrounded by people who aren't...from that!).
     
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  9. jarvyjarvison

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    A lot of us don't believe in casual sex for one reason or another. We have to deal with urges - at least for a while.
     
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  10. berkiko

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    I think you can use that energy for workout or talking to beautiful girls you like. Girls can feel your energy.
     
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  11. cjp26698

    cjp26698 New Fapstronaut

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    I have been thinking about this for the past few months. If watching porn is an addiction that is fundamentally based in your brain. Then all you have to do is replace fapping with another behavior. Replace it with something positive like the gym, reading, walking outside, and anything you find interesting. I wrote my thoughts down in a journal format for the first time. It was actually really enjoyable and constructive.

    You can turn this really negative behavior into a positive one.
     
  12. maz20

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    If you don't mind me asking, why not go for casual sex? You know, like finding a "friends with benefits" situation!
     
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  13. Rando115

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    Will be waiting
     
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  14. BigOne79

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    Yes! If you are a student use that energy to socialize and meet people. If you are studying that energy will help you obtain even better goals in your education. You got talents in anything reading, music, cooking, there you go. Never try to suppress or fight it, that is the worst thing to do though.
     
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  15. jarvyjarvison

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    Well, for me it's not in sync with my view on life. I think sex should be had in a committed relationship between two people who love each other, if not married. I mean sex for the sake of sex feels good in it's own way but I'd like to experience sex with love.
     
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  16. maz20

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    Interesting, personally I'd just say it's simply just a natural biological human thing to do --- things like culture/religion/politics/etc... notwithstanding (i.e., no need to have that stuff in the way of biology (or, even more of it in the way than may already be!))
     
  17. Having/pursuing actual sex is easier said than done for some.
     
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  18. maz20

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    Well, in a way that's actually one of the benefits of NoFap. It points/focuses/concentrates you to that pursuit lest you risk (what is called here) "relapsing" (1) or "flatlining" (2)
    (essentially, either (1) obfuscating/masking what your more true level of sexual frustration is, or (2) rejecting anything sexual/sexually-related because it causes that "sexual frustration" in the first place)
     
  19. Gladiatori

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    Thing is here i dont think is on your radar. By women dressing sexually blatantly men have no choice but to look. Actually it happens before we are even aware... takes training...

    For instance: I am doing a 40 day no M atm. I call this shogun challenge. Now It has happened before that I got horny af and there are bodyparts and cleavage all over like a jungle of Sex and I have the jungle feeeever! :D.

    So by normalizing all this sexuality we open the door for male lust and lack of discipline to then become PMO/M Fornication etc etc... This is why our old cultures were very strict on female cleavage; because they knew that males are sexual beasts... and out of respect for them and thus society... they did not goad the hungry lion with raw zebra ass.

    Think on it? Hope you consider this point of view. And it is my actual experience really.
     
  20. Gladiatori

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    oh and one more thing i am doing with my sehx energy. I am converting the generative force into non sexual stuff. Like creating IRL Muscles/body/poker/reading. many things. So I know how strong this energy is. I am training myself already for the cascade of cleavage and to control it, so it does not control me.

    Women can easily fuck around with us when the big head malfunctions.. and little one becomes in charge.! LARGE AND IN CHARGE! LOL
     

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