sooo... i did an end of the week check in with my bf (he has a profile here now, I'm not sure if he's ready to be tagged on here. he JUST signed up). he says he did great! he had temptations, but no give in. i'm proud of him. i want to believe him, too, the evidence points toward him telling the truth, but he hid it from me very well before. i don't see anything suspicious. he took the step and signed up today. it'll take him a minute to get the hang of things. the house is clean so there's that evidence. lol. i hope this keeps up. i don't want to be too naive...