Fourteen Steps Challenge

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by The Great Safecracker, Dec 15, 2019.

  1. Lolodb12

    Lolodb12 Fapstronaut

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    Day 1/3
    Why: I want to regain all my lost time...
    Quote: “If you can quit for a day, you can quit for a lifetime.”
     
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  2. 183.204 g/mol

    183.204 g/mol Fapstronaut

    0/1

    I do this because nothing changes unless something changes.
     
  3. |Astartes|

    |Astartes| Fapstronaut

    Step 1
    Day 1/1

    Time - 14:10


    I thought it'd be fun and motivating for me to post this five part series which my avatar and profile name is based upon. Gives these steps a narrative of some sort.

    So first step is done and the enemy vessel is breached. Now all I need to do is keep on going.

     
  4. 183.204 g/mol

    183.204 g/mol Fapstronaut

    0/2

    Don't want to start over.
     
  5. Beasthunter1998

    Beasthunter1998 Fapstronaut

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    relapse to Psubs and then leads me back to PMO, I must do better in terms of fighting the urges.
     
  6. |Astartes|

    |Astartes| Fapstronaut

    Step 2
    Day 1/2

    Everything is going well. A bit drunk but that's about it. Not a normal state for me but I went out with some friends and had few. Stayed true to all my disciplines.
     
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  7. |Astartes|

    |Astartes| Fapstronaut

    Step 2
    Day 2/2


    Done with step two. Super productive day today. Extremely important to be active once the weekend arrives for me as it is usually the weekend that I fall.

    So I've entered the enemy vessel now and met with very little resistance.

    Forwards! :emoji_muscle:

     
  8. 183.204 g/mol

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  9. Lolodb12

    Lolodb12 Fapstronaut

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    Day 2/3: check
    Day 3/3 yesterday: check!
    Day 1/4 today
    Why: It doesn't suit my personality...
     
  10. |Astartes|

    |Astartes| Fapstronaut

    Step 3
    Day 1/3

    Time - 14:09


    Third step and another step in the right direction. Have been a fairly sedentary day so far. Going to just tidy up my apartment and get going to make something useful out of this day.

    To do's
    1. Tidy up apartment (30 min) :emoji_heavy_check_mark:
    2. Eat lunch :emoji_heavy_check_mark:
    3. Go out for a walk :emoji_heavy_check_mark:
    4. Go to the gym :emoji_heavy_check_mark:
    5. Read 100 pages in my book
     
    Last edited: Jan 23, 2022
  11. 183.204 g/mol

    183.204 g/mol Fapstronaut

    0/3 (reset after finishing step 2 unfortunately)

    Why: to unlock the layers of reality that are hidden to me currently.
     
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  12. healmyself321

    healmyself321 Fapstronaut

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    Step 4 day 1 completed, its so frustrating to live like this man, just constant inner pain, been good with girls my whole life and I cant really do much with them rn..always covering up for not doing it or for not doing it right and I just had enough of this sh*t. Im fighting my hardest this year to change my life and Im ready to do anything to get there. Im gonna be at least partly healed by this summer I can promise you that. God bless yall, just keep going.
     
  13. Lolodb12

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    Day 2/4: check!
    I can already sense that tomorrow will be my toughest day.... I am free all day and home alone then.... Very anxious that it won't work out tomorrow... Any tips?
     
  14. Beasthunter1998

    Beasthunter1998 Fapstronaut

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    Enough is enough, I must make it for tomorrow.
     
  15. Lolodb12

    Lolodb12 Fapstronaut

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    0/4: fail
    As predicted... Not enough planning in advance today...
    Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day!
     
  16. Beasthunter1998

    Beasthunter1998 Fapstronaut

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    Survive one day without even a little peek, must keep up the good work.
     
  17. 183.204 g/mol

    183.204 g/mol Fapstronaut

    A heavy relapse yesterday. The silver lining is the numbness I feel at the moment. No desire to act out at all.

    1/3
     
  18. healmyself321

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    Step 4 completed, 10 days in a row without peeking or anything really, it was a long time ago I actually did it properly like this, just gonna keep going day by day. Having a girlfriend or something like that helps a lot since you wanna get healthy as soon as possible and you dont wanna feel that shame of being incapable, feels much stranger and harder to pmo too. We need to get it together, we are literally fighting for our lives here lmao.
     
  19. healmyself321

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    If you know in advance you are gonna have a tough day, you could make a plan you are gonna follow strictly, with as much human interactions as you can (friends, girls,whatever) and just go the fak away from home, ask someone to sleep over or sh*t just dont relay on your self sitting alone and trying to resist because it probably wont work, good luck.
     
  20. Good luck for all the new, old, and new old.

    Nothing positive to report from my absence. I've still been failing the step eight.
     
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