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Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by StayClean&Proactive, Jan 29, 2024.

  1. MikeSilva

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    Why do you keep watching these kinds of videos that damage and destruct your brain?
     
  2. StayClean&Proactive

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    I want to mentally prepare myself for when things go wrong. My current situation contradicts everything the blackpillers say. A black girl who’s accepting of the fact that I have autism and that I’m not a black stereotype. That shouldn’t happen according to blackpillers.

    The guy in the video also claims you’re weak if you can’t accept the blackpill
     
  3. MikeSilva

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    Yes, so he basically says that you should act as a victim, otherwise you are weak. This is the most nonsense thing I have ever heard. What a loser and a piece of shit talk. And how do you mentally prepare yourself when things go wrong by saying to yourself that you are lost and there is no hope for you? Like those black pill losers are saying.

    Things go wrong, life goes wrong. It did and it will always happen to everyone. To you, me, and everyone else on this platform. You know how you can prepare yourself when things go wrong? By hardening your mind, by learning and by becoming better.
     
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  4. StayClean&Proactive

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    Things are going well with this girl I’m talking to. Things are actually progressing much quicker than I anticipated. I’m just waiting for god to ruin it though and to take this away from me
     
  5. MikeSilva

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    Maybe if you stop insulting God and stop being so negative, things will actually go well for you
     
  6. StayClean&Proactive

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    Things usually go wrong when I’m optimistic. I believe I have PTSD that was induced from the pandemic. I panic to prepare myself for thing to go wrong so I won’t be hurt as much if they do go wrong
     
  7. MikeSilva

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    Don't bro, you attract negativism if your attitude is negative. Just enjoy the success for now ;)
     
  8. StayClean&Proactive

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    I’ll try my best to stay calm. I’m protecting myself from my spirit getting crushed if I get my hopes up.


    It’ll hurt ten times more if I get my hopes up and things go wrong as opposed to being prepared for everything to be ruined.

    I started crying because I’m mad at myself for not having as much money as I’d like to
     
    Last edited: Feb 10, 2024
  9. StayClean&Proactive

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    If things don’t go right I’m getting an escort. I’d rather do that than end up being single when I’m 50. I swear to god
     
  10. Mr. Unhappy

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    Okay, I’m just trying to be positive for you dude. Not trying to make any negative statements or anything. You need to chill and relax, it seems like you are so up tight with your self. I have a friend that has Autism and is on the spectrum a Nephew that is taking medication for his health and is on the spectrum . Which is improving him and making him more enjoyable at family events. My friend with Autism had a girlfriend he met from work for years. He is living on his own after his mother past away. It is possible.. I wouldn’t throw in the towel just yet man.
     
  11. StayClean&Proactive

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    That black pill guy on YouTube convinced me that it’s over for me since he’s mentioned how hard black men with autism have it.
     
  12. Mr. Unhappy

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    Feel free to believe everything you hear on Youtube then..
     
  13. MikeSilva

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    Bullshit victim mentality
     
  14. StayClean&Proactive

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    I still spend a lot of time comparing myself to other black men and wondering why this girl is potentially choosing me when she could’ve gotten someone more masculine, someone nuerotypcial and even better looking than me
     
  15. StayClean&Proactive

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    These guys make me fear for my life:

     
  16. MikeSilva

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    Stop looking at these videos....................... How often do you want to hear that you have to stop watching this crap?
     
  17. StayClean&Proactive

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    I’m just raising an eyebrow because my current situation contradicts everything those blackpillers and red pillers say.
     
  18. MikeSilva

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    No, do not watch it period. Watch positive videos that fuel you up. Whether you like it or not but the negative shit poisons your mind whether you raise an eyebrow or not.
     
  19. StayClean&Proactive

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    I still compare myself to other black men. Especially with how I see a lot of dudes on instagram who make gangster poses and dress with a lot of designer clothes. I keep thinking to myself; how the hell do I compete with that? especially being nerdy and having Asperger’s.
     
  20. MikeSilva

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    Delete Instagram. Helped me a lot
     

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