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Hey, I'm currently about 10 weeks into my reboot process where I've removed myself from porn and masturbation. However, I don't feel a difference.
I still have the same thoughts about women such as they're fit and I'd like to fuck them but this thought process I have is making me remain very unconfident, thus I don't actually bother to talk to them, as in my head the benefit of attempting is not worth the risk as I can just fantasize over them in my head later.
This objectifying view makes me think in a messed up way that really frustrates me because whenever I get close to forming a sexual relationship with a female and make up some excuse and push them away and just fantasize about doing stuff with them instead.
I initially thought it was due to my chemically imbalanced brain from too much masturbation but now I'm nearing the 3-month goal and not noticing everything I'm starting to panic.
Therefore I'm curious to whether there is other stuff I need to be doing in order to change my perspective on women such as deleting social media maybe?
I still have the same thoughts about women such as they're fit and I'd like to fuck them but this thought process I have is making me remain very unconfident, thus I don't actually bother to talk to them, as in my head the benefit of attempting is not worth the risk as I can just fantasize over them in my head later.
This objectifying view makes me think in a messed up way that really frustrates me because whenever I get close to forming a sexual relationship with a female and make up some excuse and push them away and just fantasize about doing stuff with them instead.
I initially thought it was due to my chemically imbalanced brain from too much masturbation but now I'm nearing the 3-month goal and not noticing everything I'm starting to panic.
Therefore I'm curious to whether there is other stuff I need to be doing in order to change my perspective on women such as deleting social media maybe?