HOW TO BE A CHAMPION , A FUCKING CHAMPION!!!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by KING RAGNAR, Sep 30, 2021.

Are you a champion? I AM!!

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  1. KING RAGNAR

    KING RAGNAR Fapstronaut

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    So you all are addicted to porn like me?
    Of course you are , why would you even sign up on Nofap then.

    What happens when you are addicted to PMO?
    1. You waste your valuable time ( yes you do )
    2. You mostly sit at home and usually don't like much people around you.
    3. You are a loser at life cause people who are not addicted make girlfriends and get success in life because they have huge confidence .
    4. You think you are ugly ( most people do think that ) , but fuck you , even the hottest girls have clogged toilets and there are people who are not at all attractive and still have a beauty by their sides
    5. You are weak , your legs hurt , your back hurts ( MOST COMMON ) , or OMG you have erectile dysfunction . But guess what? You wanted that to happen because you never stopped doing it.
    6. You don't work efficiently .
    7. You suck at making friends.
    8. You don't travel much

    BUT WHAT HAPPENS IF YOU COULD CONTROL THE URGE WHAT IF YOU COULD SAY NO TO THAT MOMENT ? YOU GET A MINDSET OF A CHAMPION

    If you could control yourself at that time when you are feeling the urge to masturbate you already won. That kind of mindset leads to success because you have made of your mind , you control your mind , your mind does not control you , you have everything in your hands . Why the fuck I would give my life masturbating on things which are virtual? which are non existing , which are not yours??

    What if I could use that time building myself , getting girls on my bed ( NOT PAYING GIRLS TO GET IN YOUR BED , (IF YOU DO SOMETHING LIKE THAT FUCK YOU LOSER) , getting bread on my table , earning good , doing hard work , travel around the world , try different adventure , cuisine , sport , festivals , cultures , getting girls from different countries ;) . Everything is possible mate , everything

    NOTE : ALWAYS CHOOSE BREAD BEFORE A GIRL


    So let's just keep our mind straight , and control that uncontrollable motherfucker and live life like a legend.

    peace mates ,
    KING RAGNAR
     
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  2. SelfControlIsTheGoal

    SelfControlIsTheGoal Fapstronaut

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    The energy in this post is palpable.
     
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  3. GreenManLeaf

    GreenManLeaf Fapstronaut

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    Yeaaa!!! That's the spirit, very inspiring, we can do it.
     
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  4. AndyR

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    Well said bro, well said but sadly, there's much more to typing inspirational posts. Unfortunately, with motivation alone nobody will beat a habit like that, only when the motivation is accompanied by an arduous work. Only hard work will yield results
     
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  5. Yes mate! Loved the post!

    But what on earth do you mean when you say hot girls have clogged toilets?
     
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  6. Nobody here is past 20 days, that was an arrogant post, not backed up with substance. The poster has 2 day. Those things he spoke about are not necessarily valuable and not what really matters. But what do I know, I am a retarded porn addict who has been trying to quit for 10 months and cannot stop. I am most definitely that loser he described, I am definitely not saying otherwise. However, there is no point in this post if u r just gonna go ten days and relapse. it seems like no one has the answer to this addiction. I started in this world of PMO extremely young. How can you not, with the environment and society we live in. I often get thoughts that I may never be able to stop, because I just started too young and have been in it for too long.
     
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  7. That is probably true, because all people who stopped this addiction for good (like 7 year streak, I am not talking about 90 days bro!!) started PMO late (like past teens or in 20s), and were not in it for too long (less than a decade). I wish I was taught all of this info when I was a kid, and aware of PMOs dangers and addictiveness.
     
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  8. KING RAGNAR

    KING RAGNAR Fapstronaut

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    So I want to say that my highest streak is of 130-140 days ,don't really remember it cause I didn't used nofap at that time , so this was my Observation and motivation to you all, yes I am on nofap for only 2 days right now , but I do have experienced nofap for quite a long time .
    So stay positive mate , you don't know what other people are going through and stop making assumptions cause you just aw something posted .
    Trust the process and stay happy mate
     
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  9. Man, I just relapsed, and I cannot get up right now. Can I ask you a question to learn from you though? How long have you been trying to quit? When did you get into it PMO? What caused you to relapse after 140 days?
     
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  10. Maybe you will not be able to answer because you said you do not really remember it.
     
  11. By the way I did not make assumptions, it is just the fact, we are all trying but failing. All that motivation in fact just hurts me, because it makes me think of how stupid I am going to feel after saying or even thinking such motivational things and then failing, yet again. Are we trying to stop something impossible? Even people that go for really long fail. Is it too much to dream to never do this again? Like is it ok to relapse once in a while? Like is it stupid to try to quit forever, should we all just be fine with relapsing every so often? Man, it hurts me that I want to stop watching other people have sex, or looking at pictures of women, and jerking off to it, but cant. Like it hurts so much, that I actually cannot stop this.
     
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  12. Mexica027

    Mexica027 Fapstronaut

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    that's the problem brother, you don't have defined why you want to leave those things.
     
  13. KING RAGNAR

    KING RAGNAR Fapstronaut

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    I have been trying to quit it like from past 1-2 years
    Since the pandemic hit and we were locked in our rooms my addiction got multiplied ( I had a small addiction before like once in 2-3 days) , I used to masturbate daily and sometimes 2-3 a day , then last year in September or October I got on nofap since I was really addicted to it and wanted to quit and needed help , I messaged some people who were successful in doing nofap and learned a thing or 2 from them. But I saw myself relapsing after 2-3 day and this cycle continued , and I forgot what is nofap and almost forgot that I had actually an account here and masturbated everyday . But in 2021 I was quite busy in studying , attending weddings and going here and there on vacations that I almost forgot I have a dick ( of course I peed and washed it but not sexually aroused ) . After 12-14 days later I remembered I haven't masturbated or watched porn , So I thought if I forgot it so easily , this shit can't be an addiction this shit is an habit , which we develop to please our self in the times of loneliness or when we aren't really doing anything or even when you have a lot of time to think about it . Addiction is like , your nerves call you whenever you are not doing it , let me give an example : I have some friends who smoke cigarette since they were like 8-9 yr olds and they still do after 12-13 years and what I have seen in them is that they get sweat on their face , their hands shake , they say they can't take a shit without cigg , they can't live without it , even if they haven't smoked for 4hrs!!but PMO is really not like that ,is it? So it's not really an addiction but an habit , you just need to make yourself busy , no time to think about it ( but if you are on nofap.com it will constantly make you think about it , so you have to build a great mindset)

    Warning don't read , if you get easily hard or lose control while reading

    Now come to what caused me to relapse : so what really caused me was a youtube video about a dating experiment with a cougar, and how they texted and how she texted them back and said I will be your sugar mommy ( a 50 year old lady to a 19 year old guy ) I quicky imagined myself there with some sugar mommy and I just masturbated on imagination , yeah you might call me a fool , but it was what caused me to relapse

    Buddy just be busy and start with small targets like : first do it for 3 days and then do it for 7 days then increase it day by day , you can even relapse on those days but then you have to stay clean till next target , for example
    If you target for 3 days , then stop doing PMO for 3 days and then relapse , then go onto 7 days and then relapse and then go on to 10 days and relapse , this is an easy way for your solution and it would surely help you mate.
     
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  14. Mustafashukur

    Mustafashukur New Fapstronaut

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    Yes, I am a selfish loser who wants to win everything. Yes, it is me
     
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  15. I thought about what you said really hard just now my brother. And I wrote a huge reply with nine points why i want to quit. But I was hesitant about posting it to public. But I did define now. We will see if it helps.
     
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