Just got back from a date with a really nice girl who, understandably, wasn't really interested in coming back to my flat. I got a "maybe next time" but I think it's a "no", I'm not gonna push it, we're still cool. Asking girls out, engaging in conversation, listening with genuine interest, banter, anecdotes, texting - yeah, sure, no problem. Offering compliments or implying that, yes, I'm having a great time now but I would also like to get in her pants - nope, no idea, can't do it. Feels weird. It's partly that I still have this weird view where I'd find it shameful to let on that I'm just as horny as any other guy on the planet. It's also partly because I feel like virgins like me are completely unqualified to try seducing someone. It's mostly because I'm concerned that any compliment I offer a girl will come off as horribly cringey. So my question is: Am I an idiot for thinking that it's okay to suck at flirting and rely on the rare occurrences where flirtation comes naturally from good chemistry with someone?