Nope not a fact.
I've never had a Girlfriend because of my small penis!!! HELP!
This whole 'small size' thing is probably just an excuse, not to face the real issues (PMO, bad teeth, social isolation - all fixable with effort). My only advice would be: stop being a pussy, start being a man, try to make the best you can in given circumstances. No one will do it for you, so if you don't man up, you will be a pussy for the rest of your life (and I suppose this is still quite a lot of time).
Neophyte
Fapstronaut
You're just naive. I did a lot of research on the subject and what I found was that woman who were dating small dick guys were usually getting some kind of monetary benefit from dating him or already had their fun with guys who were more sexually satisfying and are looking to settle down with someone more stable.
Well I'm a woman and I'm telling you that I don't care about penis size and that I have plenty of female friends that don't either. I am not sure how that's naive and I'm 40 so I've been around the block a few times. As for money I'm not sure that you are aware but many if not most women outearn their partners. More women are graduating from college, and getting advanced degrees. Do some women care about money? Sure. Do some women care about penis size sure. But I gave you the link that shows the study and multiple other ones exist that very few women are dissatisfied with their man's penis size. I would like to see the research study you refer to, because I find it interesting. I have outearned every man I've dated in the past 15 years so what a guy makes matters nothing to me. If you want to believe this fallacy that's fine. But if women are telling you they don't care why don't you believe it?
I agree that focusing on things that one can't change is often an attempt to not accept blame. Example "I got dumped because I have a small penis." Or no one wants to date me cause I have a small penis, that makes you the victim. But in reality the reason the person got dumped could be cause they are a jerk, that they mistreat women, that they have intimacy issues, or neglect women in bed. But those things can be changed with work. It's easier to place the blame on something that is behind your control.
Neophyte
Fapstronaut
Woman don't want to hurt guys feelings so they'll say anything to make guys with small dicks feel better, and they have to protect their investment, they can't just tell their husband the sex sucks but you are a great provider. And also most woman have never really dealt with a small penis, a lot of guys are insecure about being in the 5.5-6.5 range, but that's actually average, so a lot of times girls will confuse an average dick with a small one and spread misinformation that small dicks are okay.
There are always exceptions, not all girls are clamoring for porn star tier penises, but generally girls pursue some guys for good sex, and others for their potential as providers, though ideally they want both, but guys like that are hard to tie down because they can have any girl they want, so girls will fuck these guys during their prime, then settle for the less exciting guys when they want stability. This is just how woman operate. Again, OP may find the exception, but just know how the game works, don't be a sucker. Guys with small dicks tend to overcompensate and girls will just use them while cheating on the side.
As far as research, generic studies tend to be unreliable because people lie and put up a front when asked certain questions, I go to places where girls are anonymous and are able to explain how they really feel without being judged, and its pretty harsh. What I noticed was that any girl who had anything good to say about a small dick was usually referring to an ex and were dating a guy with a bigger penis currently, or were married to the guy with the small dick, meaning that they purposely jumped ship for more satisfying sex, or were at the point where good sex was less of a priority.
These examples are just a few.
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Funny how you say "that's just how women are, as if first off they are all the same and I'm a woman and am night like that and yes I've been with a small guy, 2 actually. I'm done wasting my breath. You can believe what you want .
Neophyte
Fapstronaut
I'm sure you are an exception, but exceptions only prove the rule. I never said all girls hate small dicks, but most don't like them. Same as things like height, yeah some short guys will end up with a taller woman, but generally girls want a guy that is taller than them, its just the way things go. I don't want OP to give up, but he should know that as far dating value he is at a big disadvantage because girls will naturally gravitate to guys with more attractive traits that they like, and a bigger penis is one of them.
Exactly! lol
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Our break up had nothing to do with sex or a small penis funny that’s immediately why you thought we broke you. He moved across the country for a job. I did not want to do long distance. And a few women talking about penis on a blog does not a control group make. I’m not sure if you have a small one or big one or what point you are getting at here. Having a big one is meaningless if you are otherwise horrible in bed or lack other non sexual characteristics that a woman is looking for. And men who think they are small would be surprised to learn their partner does not. If you are finding comfort in thinking the majority of women are as concerned about penis size then by all means continue. Otherwise please know that penis size is a very minor concern for most women. If you are a man with a small one dating a girl who does care move on. There are plenty of women who will not give a crap and love you for who you are. And one last note women are not afraid that tell a man that he’s bad in bed because they are afraid of losing a provider. I’m not sure what century you live in but in the modern world many women are the provider or head of household. If not that they certainly have well beyond the means to provide for themselves.
AChosenPeople
Fapstronaut
man you have some serious self worth issues, and the truth is SIZE REALLY DOES NOT MATTER. as long as you have something to stick you're good to go. Do this nofap thing and your self worth will increase drastically.
AChosenPeople
Fapstronaut
that's not even that small. you're the asian european guy xD
SpouseofPA
Fapstronaut
Wow this thread got heated. and i'd like to quickly add my 2 cents and then exit.
Not all women care about penis size. Reason being...
women DON'T GET OFF WITH JUST A PENIS.
We need foreplay etc to get aroused. the penis is the not even necessary.
Its great to have but not required. out arousal spots are our entire body as well as our "c" (don't want to say word as possible trigger for some)
Lots of guys that have a small penis can be thicker as well. For some its the thickness they care more about.
But all in all, If you think its so small then learn to make love to her body first, cause then when the Penetration happens you'll both see fireworks easily.
Not all women care about penis size. Reason being...
women DON'T GET OFF WITH JUST A PENIS.
We need foreplay etc to get aroused. the penis is the not even necessary.
Its great to have but not required. out arousal spots are our entire body as well as our "c" (don't want to say word as possible trigger for some)
Lots of guys that have a small penis can be thicker as well. For some its the thickness they care more about.
But all in all, If you think its so small then learn to make love to her body first, cause then when the Penetration happens you'll both see fireworks easily.
ReclaimedLife
Fapstronaut
You have
F alse
E vidence
A ppearing
R eal
mate.
Every girl who even chuckles at your dick can be friendly reminded with the words
"Thank you for showing me your character now. It saves us both our valuable time. Bye."
before you kick her out or you leave.
F alse
E vidence
A ppearing
R eal
mate.
Every girl who even chuckles at your dick can be friendly reminded with the words
"Thank you for showing me your character now. It saves us both our valuable time. Bye."
before you kick her out or you leave.