I've never had a Girlfriend because of my small penis!!! HELP!

The only response I have personally sent is maybe wtf? I certainly don't want it from a guy I don't know or barely know heck I don't even want it from my husband! Often I think men do it as they hope the girl will reciprocate with a naked pic which is rare! But mostly I think men think it means so much to us that we like it! Even when you tell them you don't they don't listen!

 

He is right in saying that your penis size isn't the problem. It is indeed in your head, yes your penis is slightly smaller than average.

The most sensitive part of a ladies vagina is the first 3 inches I believe. So you are fine, having a bigger penis than that is just for show. People like the idea of a bigger penis rather than actually needing one. It makes no difference scientifically. If a woman can make herself orgasm with her tiny little fingers that are 3 inches long and pencil thin. You can satisfy a woman with your 4.6 inch penis that it without a doubt a lot thicker than her fingers.

Porn ruins people's expectations and makes every man feel small. I've known men who have 7 inch penis's and they feel small because they're watching these pornstars with 11 inch dicks. In reality that is killing the girl and she probably can't wait to get off the porn set and collect her cheque.

 

Unless she asks for a dick pic don't send one.

 

If you have no dating experience how do you know it matters who told you that?

 

Haha. It is a fascinating phenomenon particularly as it seems so common. I just wonder what the thought processes are leading up to the man thinking to himself - "I know, I'll send her a pic of my penis, that should do the trick."

As far as I understand women's attitude towards penises it is far more about how it responds to them as affirmation that they're attractive and sexy and what it can be used for - rather than what it is in itself.

 

Girls are attracted to self confidence and assertiveness.

 

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You can give a girl a better orgasme by liking her pussy.

I ejauclate within one minute and i still have lots of sex when i was a player because i licked their pussy until they came...

Now i have a girfriend who knows i ejaculate pretty fast but she doesn't care because i can give her amazing orgasme with my tongue
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As a SO I can confirm that my partners's penis grew significantly and it changed shape. Also, most men think they have a small penis. Most men do not have a small penis and honestly penis size is so not a factor in what makes a good lover.

 

Untrue. Seriously where does society come up with this bullshit?

 

I agree with everything you said except that women consider a minimum of 4 inches to be necessary. What women all women? I don't. So I would just caution you with generalizing about how all women feel or think. I don't have a minimum. But everything else agreed. I think as we age we become more comfortable and confident in who we are flaws and all. And when men are complaining about being too small I often wonder if they perceive the actual size correctly did you use a tape measure? Many men think they are small and are not. Plus many women enjoy girth so short and fat in the world of penis' can be a good thing!

 

@topbwoydiss Do not worry, you will get one. Guaranteed. I know you will!

But first you have to stop worrying about things, which are, not even worth thinking about.

I can only fully agree with @Got to Overcome . 10/10 for his post, and he saved my time because he wrote everything what was on my mind, and even more.

"Learn to accept yourself, and others will do the same."

 

It’s not about the size of your dick

 

Hey man, I am 36 and I have a 4 inch dick and suffer from life-long premature ejaculation. I get very down and I've had some pretty depressing periods in my life. I also don't have time for 'size doesn't matter' talk. But I somehow developed a kind of attitude of 'fuck it'. I realised that the worst thing that could happen is that a girl could just not want to see me again. I've been lucky. I've met girls who just didn't think it was that much of a problem! I've slept with girls who never texted back, and that could have been for a lot of reasons, I've not texted back for petty reasons too.

Ps. I've got bad teeth too.

My advice to myself was: get out there, jump in the fire. Date a lot of people. There have probably been a lot of women who thought I had a small dick. Honestly, fuck it. I got out there, dressed up nice, picked out a good bar, had a good time on a Friday night! Victory for me.

A LOT of women (and men obviously) are superficial and won't date guys for one reason or another (especially dick size etc), that, as you say, is the world we live in. But I would say there is a good 20% that are different - and that's where the normy shit world fades out and you start to meet genuinely interesting girls that you yourself will actually be interested in too.

Yeah, this all sounds a bit worthy. But I can't think of any other way of saying it.

Anyway, best of luck buddy!

 

Okay hold a second. I am not a believer but if your weird, smelly, and have no friends that's your fault. Fix that, big time. Probably thats why no girl will approach you. Fucked up teeth see a dentist or an orthodontist, could be genetics but it's manageable. I don't know the scar but that's not an issue. Anyways back to the main topic of this thread. Just abstain from PMO and you will notice changes in your penis. Not sure about size but erection quality changes a lot. Also be confident in your size, if you are very insecure about it a girl will pick up on it.

 

Let me tell you a common knowledge fact: the percentage of woman who O just by penetration alone is incredibly small. So you can have a dick the size you want and still not satisfy your woman. I would suggest 2 things for you:

1) learn how to pleasure a woman with your tounge and fingers, if you give her amaising Os then the size of ur dick will not matter.

2) u can always get enlargement if this issue is bothering you so much

You have lots of anger and hate towards God, you blame him for your bad teeth and not having a girlfriend. But God gives different set of problems to diferent people to overcome.....
Just imagine being born with AIDS or having no legs and arms or being blind or beig sexually abused or killed by ur abusive parents. Other people have to deal with much worst things than you do. The difference between other people and you is : they make the most out of what they have been given.

So what does this mean for u:

You can invest in some good dentist and get your teeth sorted, then you can invest some more and get a therapy for the hate you are carrying in your heart and your low self confidence issues. You can get dick enlargement surgery and enrol in a tantric course teaching you how to please a woman in bed, you can embark on a quest learning how to self love leaving self hate behind, you can start thinking of how to become happy rather than how to give yourself more hard time..... you can do all of those things and take ownership of your own future and happiness..... or you can self isolate and self hate till the day you die blaming everything on God. But this is what it means to be truly great: truly great people raise above their difficulties and succed regardless of what they have been given by God.

You happiness lies in your own hands my mate and the sooner you alow yourself be happy and take responsibility for your wellbeing, the quicker your life will become better for you. Or you can continue as you are. Never realising that it is up to you to love youself and others.

I know where you are coming from. I used to think God was sadistic inflicting so much suffering on me and others. But it was not God, it was other people and myself. The moment I stopped abusing myself and left abusive relationship behind everything changed. You do not have a partner but at present you are in a very abusive relationship with.....yourself. And let me tell you something more, not many girls would want to be with a guy who hates every inch of himself. You can only EVER love and respect and look after another human being if you can love, respect and look after yourself.