rejection

Hello everyone, I'd like to tell you about myself in this thread, how it all started, and my current situation. My family and I went to visit my father's sister when I was 11. They had a son who was six months older than me. We were playing together, and at one point he asked me, "Do you know...

This weekend I gave in to my lustful desires for Asian massage girls. I was triggered and highly upset about being fooled by this single mom I was dating. So I drop her off & go to the closest massage place- it was an awful experience at a place that gives HJs. The lady said she was quitting...

No matter how hard this journey may seem or if your not getting the results you want you'll want to give up, fuck that shit, Ive taken that route for more than 15 years and it hasn't gotten me no where but stuck n the same place wondering. @t first Im not gonna lie, I was pissed and angry when...

As you can tell from the title. I just got recently rejected and it feels so good. Just to finally let it all out. Shit that was built in your system for years. My fear of rejection, having my ego bruised and crushed has kept me from taking the next step with woman, even if it was for a hook...

Inspired by Jia Jiang's challenge of the same name, I am going to seek out one rejection every day for the next 100 days. The aim of this is to fortify myself against rejection and looking like an idiot - that when these things happen I will be able to shrug them off, and will be more willing to...

This is the second time I am going to complete 100 day streek, last time it went till 105. Everything went perfectly till 60-63 days. After that one girl came to my life (in office), we got attracted towards each other, regular eye contacts and curiosity to know each other. Looking all these...

Hey guys what is up? I was wondering how you manage to know new women to date? In my case, I don't go out anymore on saturdays or any other day because I don't have a circle of friends anymore. So what's the best way for me to know new girls? I go to the gym (but I don't think it's a place...

I asked the girl I like to be my valentines, and she said she wasn’t looking for anything at the moment. I was like “Ouch” but oh well, at least I’m not jerking off. I’m not a sociable person, so I feel a little bit proud from this because it’s something I normally don’t do, yeah I’m a...

There will be people in life who will reject you.⁠ You won't like it.⁠ You'll feel hurt or embarrassed or angry.⁠ It's ok.⁠ It's natural and healthy to feel this way.⁠ But it's worth it to risk the rejection anyway.⁠ Risking "not being liked" is necessary to have the life you'll want.⁠ It's...

This could be a set of beliefs, a hobby or an enjoyable occupation. There are a few reasons for this: it will heighten your attraction to the opposite sex (if that's what you desire out of NoFap), it'll lower your reaction to rejection- which contributes massively to relapses in my opinion, it...

In about mid-February I was on a twelve day streak, and I started talking to a girl from the Czech Republic who was one year older than me. We were talking on Reddit before that at the start of January, it was in February that we started talking to each other on Discord. This girl wasn't...

I got shot down today and need advice, will explain but it's kind of a long story sorry. My confidence is through the roof with having avoided PMO for the last few weeks. I have had several promising encounters with women recently and I believe my intentions are as pure as they come (for a man...

Women are very difficult to talk to online, at least for me. Thank God there are a lot who come into my work that I can talk to. I don't struggle in the real world. I swear I would rather ask 100 women for their phone numbers in person than have to mess with sending an online message. They just...

I dunno how to put this together but I attempted for 14 times and now I relapsed again .I m studying for a really serious exam but I am not gettting satisfied with my success .I wanna give up porn for real but cannot really . I went to my classes today where my teacher really made me feel a dumb...

“She might have even liked me… but I will never know now…” I was a guy who PMO’d 2x/day every day (early morning AND late night) from ages 18-26. I failed out of grad school a few years back, which made my PMO addiction take an even worse turn. I moved back in with my parents. I worked a...

I asked a girl to be my girlfriend and i got rejection. I thought i will feel okay but i feel ashame until today. Everytime i see her see me i feel awkward. I got negative thinking about her wht if she tell her friends, what if she laugh at me. This ashameness make me feel depression and make me...

Rejection is a bit like getting a physical injury, like spraining your ankle. Ouch! There's that pain I've felt many times before, then a soreness that fades away with time. But this is how life goes. Injuries happen, both physical and emotional. And we have to be able to deal with them, then...

So there I was...12 days clean... at the top of the world. Asked out a crush to prom, everything went great, even bought condoms since I was thinking about going back to her place. She calls me a couple of hours later (original plan was for her to call me, we go out and chill) and tells me she's...

so two days ago I was talking with this girl I know and I got the idea that I wanted to ask her on a date. She said she’d be fine with. I asked if she’d be interested in meeting up in our spare time and she said yes. Later when at home I texted her a date and time that I wanted to take her out...

My husband and I have known each other for almost five years and up until recently enjoyed (in my opinion at least) an exceptionally happy marriage. Very early on in our relationship, he confessed to me that he wasn't a very sexual person. Masturbation was something he didn't like, porn...

I'm a bit embarrassed to bring this up, but seriously wondering if and how I will ever get around this. In short, I get really turned on when girls reject me (and kind of turned off when they are really into me) - is this just the classic "only wanting what I can't have"? I also get turned on...

Greetings, rebooters! It's My #1 thread. Last night was one of the worst nights of my life and I'll tell you what happened. Some background information. I am a 24-year-old male living in Beijing, China. I completed my Masters in New York University this summer. I have completed 2 sessions of...

Hello, i've been introduced by a friend to this. I'm 16, i study a lot and do boxing/gym. In the latest days i've had seen how i weren't ever actually taking a grip on girls, not because of shyness, but because i didn't feel the needing for it. I passed a lot of shit and i though that the reason...

Been crushing on this girl for a while now and finally asked her out and this is the first time I've ever asked a girl out as well. She said no because of distance and because she's already dating someone so just kind of sucks. I feel kind of inferior now and it hurts.

I had a 33 days streak. During that time, I realized I like a girl, let's call her Alice. I say "realized" because I only started to actually see the women around me after I started rebooting. The more I saw her the more I liked her, the more I was thinking about her, and then I was in love. I...

I usually write with a structure in my other threads but this one is different, I'm just going to follow my train of thinking. Game is such a difficult concept. It is usually described as natural mating between humans, in which everyone looks for someone to breed. At least that's the...

So I was watching some YouTube social experiments on gold diggers. Usually in which the guy asks a girl out, gets rejected and the girl chases after him after he flexes his money. I'm not saying every woman is like that. But on the other hand, I couldn't find many of these however if a woman...

I am an 21 year old male, and have been watching porn since grade 5, ie age 11. As with all addictions, it started quite innocently but lead me to very nasty stuff. I've watched porn every day for the past 12 years, sometimes edging for 7 hours before orgasming. I have never had a girlfriend so...

I'm just happy to be here! ☺ I was introduced to P when I was only 14 and will never forget the day my stupid ass cousins showed me a clip of hard-core P. If only they understood the damaging effects it had on me I'm a good looking guy with confidence and no problems in gaming at all. But what...

I just came off a 20 day streak, my longest serious attempt. The day after, I PMOed a few times. I’m noticing more and more that my porn addiction is driven by anger and rejection. My basic pattern is I hunt the Internet for porn pictures for a couple hours, and I always thought it was a hunt...

I'm on day 4 tomorrow and am feeling uneasy. I was very confident and I have a huge goal of meeting an online brother in the spring. I met this friend on experience project when I was dealing with depression and rejection. I think rejection drove me to masturbation in the first place and keeps...

So I am going good with no P. But I am not seeing the benefits so many describe as yet just over 30 odd days in. I am not sure how much it us the cloud of the pain of separation from my wife. I have moved into a room near the family home in the home of being close to and seeing the kids. Tonight...

Yeah like the title says, I think I have made progress in terms of talking to women. I got a girl's number at work a little while ago and I was speaking to her for a bit. Asked her if she wanted to meet up some time and well...I got turned down. By turned down I mean she just didn't respond...

After a series of very big fights (yes I am partly to blame for them) with my wife who is ending our relationship as she says she no longer loves me, I am left with a dangerous sense of worthlessness. I have been called lots of things by her because of my actions in the past and they are being...

One Year on NoFap! 100 PMO-free days (and counting)!!! This is going to be a long post, but if one person reads this and walks away feeling motivated to keep going with NF, then it served its purpose. For me, reading the Success Stories here played a big part in my success. I really hope this...

So I went on my first date ever on Friday I thought ever thing went well me and my date were talking a lot enjoying each other's company she was smiling and laughing. she told me she had plans with her cousins before the date but we ended up taking for like an hour and a half then I had hugged...

After my recent experience of rejection. I've used it to channel the energy into writing something that can inspire and motivate you on here should you face it yourselves. It’s a part of life. But what can we do to overcome it? WHEN it comes to applying for jobs, or liking someone and asking...

Before I say anything, I'd like to tell myself that I'm worthless piece of shit. God really doesn't fuck with me at all. He filled me with all these fucking problems : small dick, weird,smelly, fucked up teeth, no friends & a nasty scar on my stomach. The reason for me never having a...

I'm NewWorld115 , New to the Forums but I have been trying to get a 30 day streak from 6 months back when Nofap First came to light. Recently, I have thought myself to have made progress with 2.5 week streak But Alas! Yesterday while Watching some Anime I stumbled upon fantasies. Got up to...

I want to begin by saying that I hope that this process is effective in the long run. I have already found some improvements since I began this journey. However, throughout this experience, myself, just like so many others, have been on a mental and emotional rollercoaster that seems...