Last fap of 2019?

do you want to start the new year with regret? or start the new year with pride that you decided enough is enough? It is your choice, but I know for myself the latter is way better.

 

I don't think that's a good idea, It only reduces your chances of getting back on track as soon as possible.
Since september i've been trying to quit porn and I decided to quit only on a day where counting the streak is easier, for example 10th of September etc, then I kept postponing dates until October, So I gave one last fap and started my October, however I failed and the cycle went on for postponing the dates and stuff, Then I thought After November No more fapping, But I realized I do this everything so I decided its One Day or Day One and quit fapping since October 28th.

Don't take the New Year as a chance to fap. NoFap is all about getting out of the addiction, not resisting the urge to fap. Once you get away from the addiction, you don't even think about fapping. Also, If you are finding it hard to resist the urges, search NoFap Superpowers / Benefits, it helped me in my beginning days.

 

Bad idea. & am I the only one who noticed it was supposed to be 2018 in the title?

 

Your ability to rationalize why this is okay to do will serve you well in 2019 and for the rest of your life.

Stay comfortable. Keep settling for less. Tell yourself it's not a big deal. Be content, idle, and stagnant. Continue to escape reality and your neglected problems. The new you is the you that rationalizes the old you's negative life choices.

But it's fun, so fuck it right? Fuck 2019 and fuck personal growth. Fuck 2018 and fuck all your missed opportunities in life. Fuck long streaks and fuck nofap counters. Fuck your hand and don't fuck real people. It's no big deal. So fuck it.

Wasn't a big deal when you started PMO in the past either, but you're exactly where you want to be in life now right? So it's all good. Relax and reward yourself with escapism and instant gratifications. Why be a new you when the current you that indulges in PMO feels so fulfilled right?

Fuck it.

 

Don't.

 

This shouldn’t need to be a public discussion. If you are here for a porn addiction then obviously this is a bad idea. If you are healthy, not an addict and really need to MO then maybe once every seven days?

Also in no case should you watch porn. Watching porn is never acceptable.

 

Ouch, there are some strong responses to your comment!
I'm not surprised, though, because
you are doing exactly the opposite of what you need to heal.

Well, each to his own, but I don't find ED to be fun.
At all.

As long as you enjoy ED — maybe it's a bit of a fetish for you — that's OK.
Each to his own.
It's just that this forum isn't the place to deliberately maintain fetishes and dysfunctions.
You can find better support for that elsewhere.

But if you change your mind and want to heal,
come right back.
We'll be here for you.

EDIT:
I've just seen your other threads, and I see that you are struggling badly.
I've responded on your other thread.

 

The future doesn't exist. Saying I'll fix my problems in the future is the same thing as saying that you won't fix them.

 

Dude, there is NoFap in 2019. It's not allowed.