My 30 to 60 to 90 days challenge

Yes absolutely!
Your mind can be tricky, but we must always alert

 

So day 16 was good.
Don't had any urges today, I suround myself with people who love and care for me, and I try to be a loving guy towards others as well, because everybody needs
love, support and all. You know, the environment is so important I want to encourage others to be with people who inspire you to the good things in life. Friday night I was with people in a park in Amsterdam. It was a birthday, but I saw a lot of people who were using drugs, who were drunk and all, and I don't judge like their bad people and all, I am not better in any way, but I saw a lot of damage in those people. If I think about it, we were never supposed to be chained by addictions and all that, we were born to be free right!?

I talked to some guys about their use of drugs, and they told me they wanted to quit but just couldn't. They were using drugs together, smoke together and drink together, and now while I am thinking about this, I understand why it is so important to suround yourself with people who can motivate you to become someone who conquers these addictions. Somewhere my heart goes out to help people with addictions and problems, and like myself while I am still trying to quit pmo, I hope I can help people to do thesame because life can be so much better without all these addictions that will lead to trouble sooner or later.

I don't smoke, I don't use drugs, and I've never been drunk before, but I did had pmo in my life, and I hate it because it ruins so much! So I try to be with people who I can rely on, who I can talk with, in my case it would be church and all. But the surounding of people loving eachother brings so much hope that you just don't want things like pmo, you'll see the things in life which are so much more meaning and all, it satisfies way more, than every drug, porn vid, or alcohol. Btw. I am not saying alcohol is bad! But to much of it, and addiction to it ofcource

We can overcome this addiction guys, we can with the support of one another, we don't need to face everything alone, we can stand together!
My advice is: try to suround yourself with people who influence you positively, I am sure it would help you to make a big step into freedom from addictions like pmo

 

Hey guys,

I probably said this al ready, but men I am glad with nofap! You see it is like when you are obstaining from pmo, at first you are like men I hate it, I will never do it again. But over time, it's like you forget
and their comes the curiosity again. Well, today was a weird day, woke up reall strange, not arroused but had pain in my chest and also with breathing but that went over. I had a lot of free time today and I didn't do much more than surfing on the web and watching tv. I notice that when I fill my day with stuff like this, I make it harder for me to obstain from pmo, because all the things you see makes you kind of numb.. Luckily I did not relapse or anything, but I need to make my days more meaningful, try to fill it with better things like creating order in my life and all. I want to be disciplined but I have so much trouble with being disciplined! Obstaining from pmo is really good, but I need to do others things instead that are positive!

Tonight it will be time to work again, after that, day 17 is over! It is amazing how fast the days go by! I really want to hold my promise, I really want to reach the 70 days on my birthday, that would be so awesome! I will not believe the lies of pmo, I will not give into it ever again. august 14 was the last time I gave in.

 

Sounds awesome! You know it is so great for me to see you're doing well with almost 37 days, excellent!!! Please continu on this road for freedom, you know the last time I didn't read the Bible that much and my relationship with God is not the best but I want to fix that, I know that with Him I can conquer anything for His glory! God Bless you!

 

I wil! The urges wil go away! They are lies just think about the fact that your 37 38 days are back to 0 just because of 1 second of pleasure... come keep it up!

 

So I am now on day 19! I am really happy it goes well!
Since I obstained I sometimes dream about relapse, but last night I dreamed of surfing on the Web and I saw videoclips and it captured me a little bit but even in my dream I was like,no can't do this and clicked it away! When I woke up I realized it was a dream but in real life and in my dreams I want to obstain from pmo Let's finish day 19!!

 

Oh boy almost relapsed.. but still in the race! I saw some nudity ( not on purpose) but clicked it away very fast since my mind wanted me to m.

Argh I hate porn, luckily I can go to work tonight and end day 19...

 

Aaaaand relapsed.. why? It all started yesterday en today bam, but one thing for sure I am not gonna be like the others times when I relapsed I am gonna be right back on track! I'm so sorry guys!!

 

Eey man sorry you relapsed too but the best thing is indeed to focus more on God, I am gonna make things clean in my life starting my relationship with Him! I will pray for you!

 

John Bevere talking about his porn addiction and how got delivered.

@grozz check this video out, really think it will be really helpfull!

 

Great! Good idea