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Just wanted to intro myself!

Interesting story, in the past I didn't have a strong emotional connection to a female I dated/relationship. I use to masturbate at least once a day outside of sex.

I got into a new relationship with an amazing woman and have amazing chemistry, so emotional, and I stop watching porn almost everyday and masturbating. I stopped smoking and feel a real disconnection between my mind and penis.

I also have this lack of fire for sex, even though my girlfriend is sexy as hell. We have done it many times, but I experience issues at times with how hard I get it a couple times...not at all. So started to research and came across a forum talking about this site.

Anyone go through similar?! Can it be mental re-wiring?

 

Thanks! Honestly, just sheer will power to stop. I don't like that I don't have this natural sex drive at its highest right and an on top of this 90 effects from quitting smoking, I need to do this for the better.

 

Thanks so much for the advise!

 

Ok thanks brother! I'll surely watch that, yeah this on top of quitting smoking is doing a real number physically and mentally, physically I am fairly ok most of the time. However, before I got with my love, was watching prob everyday and masterbating, then nearly completely stopping...plus smoking! I'll get through this, I'm determined!