sex drive

Hi - new to this forum but I've known about NoFap for about 10 years. Tried it on and off. Longest I did was the first time for about a month and it was pretty revolutionary. I do have a long term partner but we don't have a lot of sex and perhaps that's why I turn to Masturbation. I have an...

Hi I'm gay 17m looking for an accountability partner. My goals are to watch, jerk off, cum, only once a week. I have a very large sex drive (multiple times a day) and I want to slowly ease into my once a week goal. Why? I'm a very passionate, academic-driven teenager who will be applying to...

I have a question and want to know if I do NoFap and I can't have sex and finally have orgasm, will my sex drive stay safe or could it be gone forever? There are people you claim that if you don't have sex or masturbate, your sex drive will be destroyed. One of my friends who is a porn addict...

We, as men, are creatures of drive. Thanks to this, Sex is our economy. This means the following: ~9 times the amount of sex drives compared to women Greater physical strength, aggression, and provision towards women and children Greater desire to invent, innovate, and continue with an eternal...

It's been 2 times i got to 15 days but then relapsed, this time i was clean of any kind of porn for 13 days then slowly gone back to that disease. So what happened is after day 13 i became extremely horny and i couldn't even think or even enjoy playing a game or watching anything, my life...

I'm rebooting because using porn for years gave me erectile dysfunction and killed my sex drive. I want my dick back and I want my sex drive back. How about you?

I (M23) have been watching porn for the last 10 years and been in a relationship the last 5 years. Four months ago me and my girlfriend broke up so I thought I am gonna give NoFap a try. I still masturbated 1-2 times a week but stopped watching porn because that was my main goal. Since then I...

During no PMO, I am having a hard time to focus on the tasks at hand as I am still on a few dating apps and every now and then it'll pop up. I'll then keep on going back and forth on it even though, during this quarantine, these girls are not going to meet up (or at least not most of them will)...

Im on day 31 of hardmode nofap. After fighting through a 2-week long flatline for the last 4-5 days my sex drive/libido has been pretty high, wet dreams, strong fantasies and a motivation to find and talk to real girls. I wasn't interested at all in looking at porn, more so the idea of having a...

No idea if this is the right place... I’m probably not alone but I haven’t really read it anywhere so I decided to tell you guys my story. Curious about your thoughts. I’m 23 and a male. I feel confident, I do a lot of sports and I have no problems talking with girls at all. I’ve had my share...

I tried this about 4-5 years ago when i felt like i had more to live for, but its been pretty much downhill since. I started watching porn at 8, masturbation at 11, and since then have had a handful of abstinence periods. Ive had sex many times, but only one time it lead to ejaculation after a 3...

Honestly this is the craziest experience I've ever been through in my whole life (I've said this countless times, saying again..) 3 years and 2 months away from porn, still flatlining, had a couple of benefits, I recovered 80% of my breath, physical stamina is a bit better (although not 100%...

Hey everyone just wanted some advice if possible. I started PMO back in around 7th grade or when I was 12. I’m 20 now and a lot has changed. I had absolutely no problems before I turned 16 or 17. That’s exactly when I started edging to porn though. I would do it once or twice a week for an hour...

My question is how can I cut down my urges totally to zero ? My PMO stats suggest that my fapstreak has drastically reduced . As such I used to fap like a normal fapper once a day and in 50 days it was like 50 faps . Now since nofap stepped in and I wanted the benefits it has , in last 50 days I...

I’ve been edging for about the last 2 years and it’s been for about 1-3 hours each time. I’ve cut it down more than usual lately. Something I’ve noticed is that even though I am 19 years old I have very low libido. I only get urges when I look at triggers. I’ve started fapping since I was around...

I started masturbating when I was 11, after I discovered that it would alleviate the built up sexual energy that kept getting stronger and stronger as a pre-teen. Soon after, it became a regular thing, and it has been for the last 15 years of my life. At first, I didn't think much of it. I...

Hi guys. This is the first time I am posting on NoFap. I'm looking for some hope, comfort and to see if someone can relate to my experience. Thanks in advance for your help! I'm 32 yo. I started M approx 4 to 10 times a week since I'm 12 but NOT with P. Started watching P at around 20 yo but...

Hello. I'd like to share some of the insights I gained - into myself, others, and the world - in my first month of NoFap. I began toying around with NoFap in October of the past year, but never got past 2 weeks. Sometime in late November I - mysteriously and miraculously - forgot about PMO and...

So I am 27 days in and have noticed my sex drive getting higher and higher and this is making me want to relapse as I wont be having sex for a long time (girlfriend wants to wait to marriage and I want to wait a year at least). And when my girlfriend and I have made out I've been tempted to hint...

Well, it's just that I'm bored and tired of failed relationships so I decided to stop trying. I really need a break. The problem is I have a huge sex drive, I found that out thanks to MO. So since I decided to be single, I started relapsing without porn. Any advice on this?

Ok before I begin, my sex drive is naturally extremely high. So I feel that my progression goes faster than average whenever I try NoFap. On to my question. I recently decided to give up porn and masturbation and work on my dating life. I’m working on my self-esteem and confidence so I believe...

Hi, For years now, I'm asking the same question almost every day : should I stay with my wife or not ? (I'm not asking any of you to decide for me, I'm just asking you to ask me the question that you consider relevant, in order to help see this matter more clearly.) My wife and do not have...

Hi everyone, I am 16 years old and have been PMing for 2 1/2 years and recently I joined NoFap. My social skills aren’t that great and I often get social anxiety. After reading about porn’s effects I decided to stop PMing because it was only making my situation worse. It has been 26 days since...

Hi all, 14 days in hardmode, and in a flatline - no urges since the start. When libido returns, how will I know? Will I eventually get erections from just looking at attractive girls? Or do I need to actually get intimate with one to find out?

Hi Everyone, Hope you'll are doing great. Just Started My Journey of NOFap!!! Man, its so difficult in the beginning Very much wanted to get rid of PMO, Just curious to know as I'm a single M/25. Is getting married a solution to overcome this desire? Feel free to give your suggestions. Thanks

I'm a 20 year old male that has had an addiction to masturbation for the last 9 years. I really hate it and I believe it has had a big effect on my life. I never want to do it, I just get an urge and am drawn to doing it, I can't stop myself and every time I regret it. I literally just find my...

Hello, I just signed up to this site because I'm thinking of abstaining (of course). First a bit about myself; I'm a 21yo student living in the Netherlands. I'd say I have a steady life, I'm enjoying my study and have enough friends. One thing I've been struggling with for a long time is girls...

So this is a just a theory that I have gathered through some input from my father, his friends (of the same general age - 72 years old) and also just my observations while out in the dating world. While out in clubs, bars, social gatherings etc. As well as input from many of my female friends...

So whenever I have an upcoming social event I abstain from PMO to increase my confidence, testosterone & reduce social anxiety. It always works but now I have a very intense urge and can't relapse because I have that event to go to tomorrow and I'm going to need all of my semen retention...

I wanna fight my masturbation addiction so that the urges can cease to exist completely. The thing about it, though, is that I want to be able to be in a relationship with a woman without caring for sex. That's why I'd rather be with asexual women so it wouldn't be expected of me. I just don't...

Ive heard of one guy saying that his masturbational urges would die out after doing nofap. But personally, my sex drive would be lower when I go days without relapsing. I don't know if it's just that fact of me being an aegosexual (Aegosexual- An person who can get aroused by things meant to...

hello, my name is Alex im 18 years old male and im from Latvia. My hobbies are singing i sing from age of 10, also i love motosport, i have a fast racing bike and i train on track twice a week well at least I trained before all this started to happen.. Soo im here, to start my journey in nofap...

Just wanted to intro myself! Interesting story, in the past I didn't have a strong emotional connection to a female I dated/relationship. I use to masturbate at least once a day outside of sex. I got into a new relationship with an amazing woman and have amazing chemistry, so emotional, and...

NO PMO, ONLY SEX! i aint just gonna during 2017, i wanna do for the rest of my life. i've been addicted to PMO for 9 years, and its about time to end this, this addiction killed my sex drive, girls doesnt excited me that much, even when I was licking and touch their pussies, and ive developed...

As far my experience goes, your libido meter tells you how horny are you feeling today & it happens the moment you are about to get up from sleep. It may vary in intensity from zero to its peak but it happens at that wake up moment, at least for me it works like this. At days when i felt my...