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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Chimii, Jun 16, 2020.

  1. Chimii

    Chimii Fapstronaut

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    26 years old guy here with bad addiction to porn & henti try to keep it as normal as possible so no hardcore stuff but now it just doesn’t seem enough it’s getting to a point where Normal porn is just isn’t doing it for me.

    I can’t stop myself from looking or watching everyday. I just get to a point to where I’m bored & I’m just like, I know what will kill some time I’ll watch some porn or henti & before I know it it’s been like 2hrs & I can’t stop.

    Why I’m starting this challenge is because recently it’s been getting harder to get a erection & to keep myself hard. At one point I thought I had ED because I just couldn’t get hard but after having a two day break all was normal & then I started to masturbate again.

    I’m fed up of being stuck in this same routine read some henti then watch porn or henti to finish off.

    Also crazy when I’m reading henti it is the only time I can get hard without touching myself so, I feel like I’m addicted to henti just for that reason alone & I cant let it go.

    But I’m going to give it a go & try to stop it all. That being said I know reading henti will be the biggest problem & I’m all ready doubting myself.

    That being said hopefully I can stop & would love advice from you guys who have done the challenge or going though it yourself on how to stop myself when I get the urge.
     
  2. Don’t worry about a challenge just worry about the day you’re in. Abstain just for today, let Tommorow be handled tomorrow.

    as for that cartoon stuff, I’ve had similar issues going down that rabbit hole. It made real people less attractive since I was seeing perfection.
     
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  3. Chimii

    Chimii Fapstronaut

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    Yeah it really does make real people less attractive. I’m take it day by day.
    But yea henti is big problem, did you recover from henti or still a problem?
     
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  4. It still can be a problem if I go back to it
     
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  5. palindromo

    palindromo Fapstronaut

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    Welcome
    Please, start studying carefully what's happening in your mind > https://oceanrecoverycentre.com/2016/07/the-ultimate-guide-to-overcoming-internet-porn-addiction/

    First time without porn will be stressful , but if you resist , in some months you will feel reborn.

    If the first times a person relapse easly, it's okay.
    The streaks becomes even longer , day by day.
    Don't porn anymore, it's better to struggle and at the last to relapse than to look at porn.
    No more instagram pictures of models. No more erotic imagines , erotic stories or erotic asmr.
    If you experience ''flatline'' and low libido , resist.
    > https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/por...l-size-and-or-libido-are-decreasing-flatline/

    An effective weapon to overcome urges and thoughts : mindfulness.
    The brain will try to win you and to get some triggers for the seek of dopamine. Resist
     
  6. Gurdev Thakur

    Gurdev Thakur Fapstronaut

    NO WORRIES BRO, JUST FOCUS ON YOUR GOAL AS YOU MENTIONED THAT YOU PMO IN THE FREE TIME AND IF YOU WILL FOCUS ON YOURS GOALS AND YOUR HOBBIES THEN YOU WON'T HAVE FREE TIME FOR PMO , SO STAY MOTIVATED AND BUSY AND TELL ME IF YOU HAVE ANY PROBLEM ^__^ <__> --__--
     
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  7. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap!!!
     
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  8. | Nico |

    | Nico | Distinguished Fapstronaut
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    Welcome to the community :) glad you could join us, wish you the best on your journey. Anything you need help with just let us know. Take care.
     
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