NoFap Ramadan

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Let's light our hearts, May 18, 2018.

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  1. Let's light our hearts

    Let's light our hearts Fapstronaut

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    Hello friends,
    Ramadan, as you know, is the holy month of Muslims where they stop food and sex from dawn till evening for spiritual and physical health. If you can control your two most basic desires for 14 hours, you'll truly become the master of yourself and desires and you'll be able to focus and understand the world in a clearer way!

    Therefore, I invite everyone, Muslims and Non-Muslims to participate in this challenge, which is as simple as this: During Ramadan no one will fap or watch porn, no PMO.

    P.s. even if you come at mid Ramadan or the end of Ramadan you can participate (even in the last day!)

    If you are in just come and comment everyday. I wish you all a great and healthy life away from addiction!
     
  2. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Big up @Let's light our hearts I've not seen you about here, or in the Muslim fapstonauts group but brilliant idea. I must say overcoming these desires has become far easier for me thankfully.

    I wish all of the people trying to abstain all the very best. And I hope you all stay strong! :p

    Salam (peace) :D
     
  3. Warrior1995

    Warrior1995 Fapstronaut

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    So, this eid we r going to celebrate 1 month of full PMO abstinence In sha Allah.
     
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  4. Let's light our hearts

    Let's light our hearts Fapstronaut

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    Wa alaykum assalam! Thank you my brother for your words, happy to have you here! :) and yes I'm kind of new to the app.
     
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    Let's light our hearts Fapstronaut

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    bienvenido mi amigo!
     
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    Let's light our hearts Fapstronaut

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    Inshallah! I really hope so..
     
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  7. u376

    u376 Fapstronaut

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    I think you are talking about food only
    Because we have to abstain from pmo for a much longer period than 14 hours
     
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    Let's light our hearts Fapstronaut

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    I think you misunderstood, my friend. The idea is not to stay away only for 14 hours and that's all, PMO is prohibited in Islam in the first place not only during fasting.. The idea is that if you teach yourself to control your most basic desires for a long time everyday, you'll be able to control yourself much better in anything, including PMO or any other addiction..
     
  9. u376

    u376 Fapstronaut

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    Ok sir
    It was my mistake
     
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  10. Porn is forbidden متلاق. Masturbation is okay if you do it with your wife's hand.
     
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    Let's light our hearts Fapstronaut

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    It's ok sir.. I do even more mistakes :)
     
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    Let's light our hearts Fapstronaut

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    I'll leave the fatwa to the Ulama.. الله أعلم :) .. Thanks for the info!
     
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  13. Warrior1995

    Warrior1995 Fapstronaut

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    In islam, it is not allowed. The male sexual organ is made only for vaginal sex, not for oral, anal or hands.
     
  14. An-Nikaah:
    ONANI DENGAN TANGAN ISTRI.
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    Fadhilatus syaikh Muhammad bin Sholeh Al-'Utsaimin rahimahullah:

    PERTANYAAN:
    ◤ Syaikh Mar'ie Al-Karami menyebutkan dalam Matan Ad-Dalil dalam Kitab An-Nikaah: " dibolehkan baginya (suami) melakukan onani dengan tangannya" yakni: istri, apakah ucapan ini benar? ◢

    ✍ JAWABAN:

    《 Iya benar; berdasarkan firman Allah Ta'ala:

    ﴿ إِلَّا عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِمْ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُمْ فَإِنَّهُمْ غَيْرُ مَلُومِينَ﴾ [المعارج:30].

    "kecuali terhadap isteri-isteri mereka atau budak yang mereka miliki; maka sesungguhnya mereka dalam hal ini tiada tercela." [Qs. Al-Ma'ârij: 30] 》

    •┈┈┈┈•✿❁✿•┈┈┈┈•

    Liqo Al-Bab Al-Maftuh (15/192).

    Audio:
    http://zadgroup.net/bnothemen/upload/ftawamp3/od_192_05.mp3
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    جواز الاستمناء بيد الزوجة

    السؤال:

    ذكر الشيخ مرعي الكرمي في متن الدليل في كتاب النكاح: "وله أن يستمني بيدها" يعني: الزوجة، فهل هذا الكلام صحيح؟

    الجواب:

    نعم صحيح؛ لقوله تعالى: ﴿ إِلَّا عَلَى أَزْوَاجِهِمْ أَوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ أَيْمَانُهُمْ فَإِنَّهُمْ غَيْرُ مَلُومِينَ﴾ [المعارج:30].

    المصدر: سلسلة لقاءات الباب المفتوح > لقاء الباب المفتوح [192]

    النكاح والطلاق > عشرة النساء والحقوق الزوجية

    رابط المقطع الصوتي
    http://zadgroup.net/bnothemen/upload/ftawamp3/od_192_05.mp3
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    © ムη_ηί₭ααん.
    http://bit.do/An_Nikaah

    ➥ #suami_istri #onani

    That's the fatwa of Shaykh MuhammadAl-Utsaimin which has been translated into Indonesian
     
  15. Warrior1995

    Warrior1995 Fapstronaut

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    Hey, i can't understand it. It's not my language.
     
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    I will translate it
     
  17. MASTURBATION WITH WIFE'S HAND

    By: Fadhilatusy Syaikh Muhammad bin Shalih Al-Utsaimin رحمه الله

    QUESTION:
    Syaikh Mar'ee Al-Karami mentioned in Matan Ad-Daliil in Kitab An-Nikaah: "It is allowed for him (husband) to masturbate with her hand", that is: wife's hand. Is it right ?

    ANSWER:
    Yes ,it is right, according to what Allah says: [Surah Al-Ma'arij: 30] "Except to their wives or slaves they have, indeed they are not culpable in this case".

    Liqa
     
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  18. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Dear brother @Warrior1995 . Everything with the wife is permissible except for anal and sex while she is menstruating. These are clearly stated in the Quran, anything else is of course allowed, considering it isn't harmful to the human body. Any more issues? If you would like I could get evidence from the quran as well as many Islamic fatwas.
     
  19. bigmanting

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    Ramadan Kareem Brothers,
    Been a long time fapper as long as I can remember (since 14y) now I’m 22. I have big dreams and aspirations in life and I’m working really hard on getting my life together inshallah. However, this serious addiction has me under a deep spell; just like all other addictions fapping has taken a big toll on my lifestyle and behaviour.
    Some things include:
    -I’ve found that I dislike hanging out with friends and becoming less sociable.
    -Feeling alone and miserable.
    -Having emptiness feelings like I’m unsatisfied with a lot of blessings.
    -Makes me a lazy individual.

    I don’t like where this is taking me, so that’s why I’m pledging this Ramadan to stop this once and for all all. Including other bad habits (gambling, weed). I’m on Day 4 atm, so I’m gonna make sure that I follow through. I didn’t smoke weed or Fap in these 4 days however I did make 2 gamble spins on 2 occasions may Allah forgive me.

    I like to read forums a lot, however I’ve never joined one and this is my first. Don’t know how it works if I get a welcome from the group or what lol. Anyways, will be posting on here everyday this month and look forward to the support we can offer each other brothers.
     

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