Numbness and jizzed my pants

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Deleted Account, Dec 23, 2021.

  1. Hello,

    I'm currently on day 20 of nofap.

    Since about 1 or 2 weeks I have a numbness feeling in my dick. My balls feel normal. I also get erections during sleep and they also feel numb.

    I'm currently dating a girl and we just had our 4th date. We went to the theater and while watching the act, we were holding our hands.
    When we said goodbye, we kissed each other (already kissed on the 3rd date).
    I just came home and noticed that I jizzed my pants. I didn't even notice it during the date.
    WTF is going on? This numbness on my dick makes me crazy. How could I have an ejaculation (didn't have a boner) while holding her hand without noticing it?
    I'm currently thinking about jerking off (without porn) just to try to get that numbness away.
    Have you got any tips for me?
     
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  2. DeeJ4y

    DeeJ4y Fapstronaut

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    It is probably just pre cum. It can leak even if you are not hard if there are intimate vibes.

    You might read too much into dick numbness, it is not like I my self feel my dick too much.
     
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  3. DeeJ4y

    DeeJ4y Fapstronaut

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    Also, dont relapse, it wont do you any good, you will just feel foolish for letting that trick you to a relapse
     
  4. It was definitely cum.

    I can still feel my dick but it's just not as sensitive. When retracting the foreskin while it's hard, I barely feel anything.
     
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  5. DeeJ4y

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    Well if you did not have an orgasm its precum. And there is nothing weird having an orgasm while not hard during nofap. I had few during some exercises that were creating pressure down there. But if you did not feel an orgasm, you did not cum.

    Ok, but why are you retracting your foreskin while hard in the first place? Could that be considered masturbation? You decide, but as what I see from your situation is that you should be happy to not feel super sensitive down there, so if you have sex you might not have premature ejaculation.
     
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  6. I think it could be cum, or precum.
    I’m early NoFap I danced with a girl and leaked so much precum that it could have been mistaken for cum.
    However, I have also had multiple emissions (releasing a load of cum) without either erection or orgasm. Sometimes a lot builds up and it just needs to come out!
     
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  7. DeeJ4y

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    Yeah, it is natural.
     

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