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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Purplehazeee, Mar 25, 2016.

  1. darkenedverse

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    The "Navy SEAL trick" I mentioned sounds so simple when you think about it...until an urge hits. That's in part because urges draw on a different part of the brain (the part where "higher thinking" occurs like logic and problem-solving). That being said, we can use the higher thinking part of our brain to control the part of the brain that is associated with urges. As a result, we can try to rationalize urges all day, but we can still relapse. That's where the power of habits can come into play. Habits are an opportunity to short-circuit the struggle with a pre-made package of action that every part of your brain understands. That's why I say NoFap is a practice and a path. The practice part of it is being aware of urges and triggers and deciding to do something else, as you did brilliantly. Keep practicing!
     
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  2. Daijimbo

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    i found a realy good video :D lets be curious !!!!!!
     
  3. Daijimbo

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    thanks for the video , and the book . :D
     
  4. TheRunner87

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    How you doing bro? You should have completed 90 days by now?
     
  5. TheRunner87

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    Day 2 has passed successfully. I feel that I am on track again with the help of God.

    Yesterday I did very tough one hour group traning at the Gem. I falled asleep like a baby.

    Keep fighting guys and most importantly is to have a plan.
     
  6. Daijimbo

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    Yeah 90 hardmode ^_^ complete . I realy want to try more than 90d , i dont need and i dont want PMO anymore , i dont have urge . Maybe its because im in an other country ( vacation 1 mounth ) , im realy curious to see what would happend when im back home . i also love challenge now , its more funny when its hard !

    your environnement is realy important , so maybe after this vacation im going to have some bad time (alone , study )
    It can be a good way to understand more about myself , and what is bad for me ;)

    and after all of that i should be ready for post something in the sucess story section <3
     
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  7. TheRunner87

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    Amazing bro. I am so happy for you. You deserve a big clap. Stay safe and see you soon on Day 90!
     
  8. Daijimbo

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    see you soon ;)

    one thing that help me is to see how many time i fail , I mean the 1 time i begin the challenge and now , there is something like 1-2 year . ( i give up , or dont try enought ) . if you relapse you have to do 90 day AGAIN but u also waste ( thats not a real waste ) all the other day
    for exemple if you relapse at 30 day ..... try again and relapse after 15 .. again and relapse after 2 day , then 1
    30 + 15 + 2 + 1 .......... exetera = more than 90 day

    and in my mind i was like ''damm i try and fail during 90 day .. but its not so long , if i wasnt relapse 2 time it would be over
    1 relapse make you waste so much time ! ( its pretty nice to see relapse like that , i aggree relapse can also have benefits but its not a good idea to think ''relapse = benefits , learn from mistake '' if you know what i mean )

    and same thing with the 90 day , its not over after 90 :D , having a goal is better ^_^ , u can count the day and be proud about your progression
     
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  9. TheRunner87

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    Day three is completed. Spending a lot of time in the Gym was key factor success for me in the past three days.
     
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  10. TheRunner87

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    I relapsed after completing 5 days. But im not giving up.

    Failure is not falling down for hundred times, Failure is to lose the ability and courage to stand up.
     
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  11. Trying2Not

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    Let's do it my friend, let's show ourself that we can do anything.
     
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  13. Jozef

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    We are all with you
     
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  14. Damn guys, I was on hard mode for 2-3 months without using internet at all, how you doing?
     
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  15. TheRunner87

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    Amazing mate, stand still.

    Tonight Im completing my week one.
     
  16. Mates, how to kill fantasies? Especially the homosexual sh*t (yes my mind is really sufering)? It's really disgusting but I still see them.
     
  17. Mr.Anka

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    Hi guys! I am back again I could not find any solution alone. I do not believe in myself because I lost maybe hundreds of time. Please would you tell me how do you convince yourself to fight this problem?
     
  18. Hey man, it's great that you're back! Everyone sometimes lacks motivation, it's normal. Ask yourself those questions: "What is wrong in your life?" "What do you want to change?" "What do you want to achieve?" As you find the answers, you will know why you should (or shouldn't) do this.
     
  19. Trying2Not

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    Today I've completed 11 days :D
     
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  20. LimitlessTman

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    I have been in the valley of PMO dispair. It is gives me great courage and resolve to come back here and find guys like @TheRunner87 and @Superman64 still fighting the good fight. Keep rocking it guys. I am going to skip my normal morning routine and go for a walk. I need to journal again and I will later. I think I spent at least 4 hours yesterday looking at Edgy videos and pics, I should be able to spend some time journaling and still have a productive day. I need this forumn and I need to slay this giant or I will end up serving it for life. Thanks guys, all of you, you make me see what I can be.
     

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