Starting the Challenge and why I'm here.

Hello Fapstronauts,

I don't even know how to start, I apologize in advance for my grammatical errors, because English is not my first language, I will try to write as clear as possible so maybe other people can connect with me and help me.

I'm a 25 years old guy living overseas, I live with my girlfriend for about 4 months now but we have been facing some sexual issues (i think is mostly because of me), the problem in a nutshell is that i lose my erection when im about to "stick it in" or i lose it a few minutes after, it has happend before with other sexual mates, but NEVER with porn or masturbation, my first theory is that i don't feel 100% comfortable during sex maybe because i put much pressure on me to satisfy the girl, but it is not always like that, i have experienced amazing sex before with other girls, or with one night stands. i feel very confused about it because i dont now the origin of the problem; doing some research i found that excesive masturbation (i used to masturbate almost everyday, sometime twice a day) can low the sex desire (libido). so i will give this challenge a chance; also i talked with my gf (which is very supportive about it) about this because i was about to lost her, so we can work together to solve this, and i took the decision after the last week after when we tried (fail) she said "i quit, im sorry", it was my breakpoint. i need to solve this.

i'm willling to answer any questions and keen to try new things that can may improve my sexual life.

 

Thanks!, Any suggestions ?