Stop calling it "masturbation" or "jerking off", call it as it is - "stroking dick"

The Bible calls it "spilling seeds", God highly disapproves.

 

That makes it sound healthy dont do that

 

I fail to see how. It sounds gross to me.

 

Sorry but this is completely irrelevant. You're trying to split hairs, that quite frankly aren't worth splitting. Either word has it's intended connotation - that being yes as you strangely state: 'stroking dick'.

 

I do stroke my dick and get pleasure from it.
If you can accept that you are making love with yourself, that you like the feelings you are giving to yourself, then you will not need porn to masturbate to distract yourself.

This is self erotism, and there is nothing wrong there.

 

Lol, are you serious!

 

And why's that? I don't see how that would make any difference at all.

 

What are you even talking about? And even more important: How would that help?

Dude, do you really consider a survey by a porn site accurate scientific data? Please tell me you're joking.

 

Get a life ultrafabber

 

I would prefer: dicking hand

 

So first off, you are implying in 2019 that homosexuality is wrong.
Second off, it takes two guys to pull off a homosexual act.
Third, there are many guys who consider themselves strait and even put someone elses dick in their mouth let alone their own dick in their hand.

 

Strait men have masturbated since the beginning of humanity and guess what? They're still strait

 

I totally agree with Advocate109. There is nothing wrong with homosexuality. So if you are afraid that masturbation makes you homosexual, then it is not masturbation the problem. You might be judging, fearing or loathing homosexuality?

"people need to be aware that if they want to be straight they need to stop masturbating" This is a bad advice. It is not simply not true. Completely wrong. And if you want stop masturbating for any legit reasons, adding this to your belief system is not good either. Because it is not a valid fact, and thus a weak belief that suggest that being homosexual is a bad thing that should be avoided.

Masturbation doesn't turn straigh males into homosexuals. You'd have more homosexuals if that was the case. 80% of males masturbate regularly, and 60% female does it regularly.

However,
A men that is homosexual, or bi, but oblivious to it (he think he his straigh but isn't), will stumble on his sexual preference during sexual exploration. This is normal, and good. The only bad thing is the toxic shame and guilt one might have discovering this, and fear of being rejected by others.
If such individual doesnt accept his sexual orientation and blame it on masturbation instead, then he will just be digging his psychological hellhole further.
Some common reasons such indivual have issue accepting their orientation:
- They judged other people. Thus they end up judging themselve severly, not accepting themselve.
- They fear other people judgment and are affraid they will be rejected. common.

I don't what other and older culture stance was on Masturbation. But I do know that Chinese were definitely not against it. Straight males would even do it together in a way to teach sexuality to teenagers. They were practicing things like orgasms without ejaculation, where you get full sexual gratification and salience without ejaculating. A men would ejaculate every 3 days, but masturbate every day and have many orgasms. Older men would ejaculate every 10 days. The goal of this was to "cultivate" sexual energy and satisfy their wife. Back then, not being sexually satisfied, was a good accepted reason for a wife to divorce.