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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by addictionfreeguy, Nov 4, 2017.

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Will my memory, focus & concentration recover if i completely stop PMO ?

  1. Yes, it will

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  2. No, it won't

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  3. Maybe

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  1. Nov 4, 2017 #1
    addictionfreeguy

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    Hey guys, i have a long story but gonaa make it short, i am 25 years old single & masturbating since i was in 5th grade but while i was in school, college i masturbate once or twice a week but after finishing my studies i started working online from home & started watching porn sometimes but masturbating 2-3/day regularly, just sitting at home alone fantasizing about porn & masturbating is all i was/am doing & because of that i noticed that i am feeling weak day by day, can't focus, cant concentrate & most important cant remember anything to everything, i dont even understand what i am reading.
    I feel so lost because of this i cant get any job because i cant get pass interviews. I just literally lie in my bed whole day or in front of laptop learning to make money online but cant do anything even today this is all same for me. My life is becoming a hell now. Can someone help me? After a while i decided to leave masturbation tried everytime but after 3-4 or maximum 1 week i cant stop myself & masturbate, watched several videos about the harm came through masturbation & thought "yeah from now on i wont do that again" but when that lust comes i forget everything & masturbate, i also watched motivational videos but nothing helped &then i came through fap on youtube so i thought i should try here. Today i joined here but this is my 4th or 5th day of abstaining myself from PMO. Hope you guys will help me from PMO & with my memory & concentration problem.

    Sorry for such a long introduction.
    Thank you for reading out it!
     
    addictionfreeguy, Nov 4, 2017
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  2. Nov 4, 2017 #2
    Slayer888

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    Welcome,
    I hope we can all together beat this dreadful habit
     
    Slayer888, Nov 4, 2017
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  3. Nov 4, 2017 #3
    addictionfreeguy

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    Yeah i hope so, thank you
     
    addictionfreeguy, Nov 4, 2017
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  4. Nov 4, 2017 #4
    Reborn16

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    Hey mate welcome!

    I'm in a similar boat, late 20s and trying to overcome PMO issues and look for a job at the same time.

    Read up about the downfalls of porn and masturbation, read the success stories, convince yourself it's worth going through the withdrawals that will be shit and push through despite it all.

    If you make a mistake, you're not alone, but don't give up.

    Mix it up, get outside and get plenty of exercise and water, instead of looking just online for jobs, look up a job agency or company and call them directly to enquire about work. Take any small steps you can. Good luck!
     
    Reborn16, Nov 4, 2017
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  5. Nov 4, 2017 #5
    addictionfreeguy

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    Yeah i am trying to do everything i can, i am really happy that i joined here.
    Thank you so much
     
    addictionfreeguy, Nov 4, 2017
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  6. Nov 4, 2017 #6
    corado

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    at this moment I try to read a book every month with about 250 pages.
    First I have had big problems to read words letter by letter..don't misunderstand, I can read, I can read really quick! but I can't read words letter by letter...because the less concentration!
    More often, it works now, that I can read in the morning.
    I often awaken at 5'o clock, normaly I try to sleep to 7 or 8..but since I don't try this..stand up at 5 or read or so I am really not mor sleepy than I sleep till 8 or so.
    Maybe <I think I'm not so foggy as I sleep longer.
    In the past those mostly failes..if I stand up really early I do one small hing...then sit in front ob the PC and looking for porn..
    Rellay!! Itry to stand up really early and the only think I do is...jerk more.because much more time!! jerking from 5 till evening!!
    I think its normal to get an idiot!! because the brain doesn't learn anything!!!! nothing absolutly nothing..only big butts cumshots.
    In the past I produced own porn, because I tought..if I'm expert in this it is a good idea to make money with that..and yes, it relly works!! I made some 1000$ with this!!
    Because you know, we all are expert in all kinds oft fetish stuff that exists!!
    But I'm single.no Childs ..and I'm about 40 years old!!!
    I think it jerked normaly often..ok mabye mor..from 12 to 16 ..but then I got an VCR...any my first <video Cassette...a few years later i was an expert to get new stuff..and with my Modem I got many pictures..
    So often new Videios for VCR and Pictures over Modem...than AOL came...and much more pictures und short clips and much more vcr.
    I lost so much lifetime..every day I think this..and a few ours or a day later..I sit in front of my Pc..jerk my brain out, think. what a shit..but mabe only a few new video Edgings....and few hours later with or without ending ...>I am foggy..all fucking shit...no more today no more...about 2 or 3 hours later.I sit there again...ahhhhhhhhh
    I tryed Xylocain Spray, with this you don't feel anything owith your cock!!..but often use is no good Idea I think.and it doesn't really work,because if you jerk harder..and concentrate..then maybe it can work :-(
    From the outside it have to look so funny to read this but it#s fucking reallity.
    Sorry for my bad english
     
    corado, Nov 4, 2017
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  7. Nov 4, 2017 #7
    D . J .

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    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
    D . J ., Nov 4, 2017
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  8. Nov 5, 2017 #8
    addictionfreeguy

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    I started meditating & reading books everyday from yesterday. it's my day 2 abstaining myself from PMO, going to make this my habit. Now i wake up early in the morning & start meditating & while meditating i try to think as much about porn as i can & then channel those energy into meditation. I am trying to control my lust while thinking about Porn this way i don't have to distract myself from porn just control those lust into good energy & i'm quite successful doing that. I think i am going to start walking in streets in nature which will help me i think.
     
    addictionfreeguy, Nov 5, 2017
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  9. Nov 24, 2017 #9
    D . J .

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    How are you today?
     
    D . J ., Nov 24, 2017
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