I am not into vlogs at all, but I couldn't find anything wrong in the things she said. Agreed with her 100 %. Perfect points
So many ''nice guys'' are in a relationships, and so many jerks can get only one night stands, but otherwise get dumped pretty quickly if they try something serious. If the goal is to sleep around as much as possible, then, yeah, jerks and muscles win, so go to gym (although I hope majority here are for developing themselves, not becoming more shallow) But if you are worried because of not developing relationship, there must be other problem than being nice.
I feel a relationship is something that you only find when you're not looking for it. Because if you are happy and fulfilled by yourself, you're automatically a better partner than someone who's desperate.
I agree, but you have to be in the batter's box to get a home run, you won't if you're on the bench. Sorry for all the baseball references but they're great. What I'm saying is yes, you can't look for a relationship to happen, it happens when it has to. However, you won't meet your new girlfriend if you just stay on the couch watching TV, go out. And I'm not saying go to clubs and bars every day, I hate clubs as a matter of fact. I'm saying, go to the coffee shop, to the park, to the gym, to your friend's birthday, even in the library you'll get a chance. You just gotta go outside and talk to people, develop game, fulfill your physical needs if that's what you want and then you can see a relationship going on. If you're not one for one night stands great, no problem, you can just make new friends until you find a girl that you want to get with and go from there. Didn't work? Keep looking.
That's the whole point of this thread, either if they want one night stands or relationships doesn't matter, because they are not getting either. Guys got to understand that being nice doesn't get you either laid nor in a relationship, because if every girl went for the nice guy, every girl would have a boyfriend.
New thread guys, hope you like it. It's called "It's all about abundance" and it will help you out on your mindset for dating. Check it out here: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/its-all-about-abundance.159894/
very well said very well explained however my situation is different you sound like a true professional teacher . what should i do to get over my shyness which has killed me into faping for the last 30 years ... i am married and need to be confident outside mariage to approach women