Yeah. I don't complain as much now that I feel more hope. I also put way more effort into myself then I used to. I used to just lay in bed all day and look at porn... No wonder my life didn't pan out the way I wanted lol. Yes, I'm recovering nicely and so will you! We'll both get there.
Day 51 This is really interesting - I used to complain about almost everything when I had heavy PMO addiction, smoking drinking and trying to party so I can forget my issues. I notice myself complaining waaaaaaay less nowadays. I have a completely new perspective on problems - I usually look for a solution instead of talking about it and postponing indefinitely. I think thats the key. Complaining is giving power to the world, other people and circumstances - and makes you powerless - you just become a victim of your own mind and tell you self others are to blame, its not fair to you and you can't change anything. This whole mentality is horse shit. Nobody is responsible for your own wellbeing other than you. This is why I don't pity almost no one these days - not even myself from the past. This old guy you are talking about - he has had plenty of opportunity in life to change his circumstances but he preferred to blame everything on everyone but himself and look at him now. Sounds like a shell of a former person to me. I am not trying to be rude, but you can use him as an example of where you dont want to end up. I promise you - take your life in your own hands and you will never be there! Have a great weekend everyone! and dont forget to do at least 1 productive thing each day even in the weekend!
I think it's Ok but It's the fight counts ! When we fall we don't stay down but STAND UP FIGHT! LET'S GO BROTHER
Day 12 @GonnaBeAGod thanks! @Say_Goodbye We all know that feeling of wanting to give up...especially after a fall. I know it is tough! But remember the motivation to continue the journey comes back. Saying "No!" to PMO is saying "Yes!" to a brighter, healthier, less self-focused life. You got a great streak which proves you can do it again
It,s just a feeling. Every feeling passes by. I would recommend you to write all your succeses in life and Nofap on Paper today and in the next day and feel it.
Day 6/90. Purchased Your Brain on Porn book, really interesting so far. Keep the momentum going guys.
His whole plan was to get an inheritance I guess, but his mom blew it all... You can't rely on things like that. It's true, he should have had his own plan.