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  • handyman
    i'm back to day 3 or 4 again. would be so sweet if it were the last time. please, P cravings, leave me be.
    handyman
    day nine, edging again. fuck this shit
    NoBrainer
    NoBrainer
    Edging is the worst thing you can do bud. I suggest resetting if you edge
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    *****
    If you really want to recover then edging is a relapse.
    R
    handyman, starting over after relapsing is really tough. I almost threw in the towel after my last relapse. Don't think too far ahead. Just take it one day at a time and try to imagine how GREAT you'll feel when you achieve your goal. I promise you - it's not easy, but it CAN be done. You already achieved 10 days before. Best of luck.
    handyman
    hate beginning over. this is so difficult. is it possible? you say it is, eh? how?
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    Kenji
    1) Google Mark Queppet and Clasik Obas
    2) Watch their videos on youtube and let their words sink deep into your psyche
    3) Keep doing your best and reach out for help here or elsewhere offline if you can't do it alone
    handyman
    one day complete... this sucks.
    handyman
    handyman
    *something positive, i mean
    K
    Kenji
    Dude, please don't think I am being a fucking cunt and telling you what to do, it's just I am a caring dude and I hate to see people bump their head up against a wall for no reason. The benefits take a week or several to start appearing, you are complaining after one day my man...
    K
    Kenji
    handyman
    Round one thousand ding ding
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    Kenji
    Truth bro. Took me 1,999 rounds before I started standing my ground. Now I'm never backing down.
    handyman
    handyman
    word
    handyman
    I feel like a dog that ate a whole birthday cake
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    Kenji
    Your avatar...in a way I like it....but don't take that medicine if it is going to cause you to not make any progress. Not giving a fuck is worthy for sure, as in detaching and letting go of shit you can't fix rather than suffer needlessly, also to not give a fuck of what negative nancies think about you, however please start giving at least 2 fucks about making progress, shit will get better.
    handyman
    handyman
    i agree and am trying :/

    like oprah..."you get a fuck, you get a fuck, everybody gets a fuck!" although maybe that doesn't work well for this example. anyway i'm trying :.(
    K
    Kenji
    Try, try, and try again! We are all trying, that's all we can do brother.
    handyman
    PMOing again. Feeling very low, as to be expected. What if I'm just too weak? Fearful it is the case and I'm stuck this way forever. fml
    R
    recovering onanist
    @handyman Don't let doubt creep in. We all go through phases of feeling we're too weak after a relapse. I can identify with this feeling a lot. However,it is not the truth - don't believe that lie. You are not stuck forever & this will pass in a day or two. Remember your goals & why you came here in the first place. Try to turn that fear into a positive feeling & know that you're worth much more. Good luck my friend.
    Icyweb
    Icyweb
    You have more strength than you think. While relapsing is a failure, the bigger, and much more harmful failure would be to stop trying. You can do this. We all have an inner strength. It's just a matter of tapping into it.
    handyman
    relapsed very briefly last night. counter begins anew and i'm in that scary zone where i feel like relapsing a lot for a minute. shitty
    sir fappanot
    sir fappanot
    dont! fuck the counter. erase that from your mind. this is all one continuity. That's the cycle!!! and the counters only perpetuate it! Your not on day 1!! your on day ___, whenever you FIRST started. You have made progress. A relapse is a bump, failure is apart of the process! keep fighting at you'll be back to normal in no time!
    R
    recovering onanist
    I agree with @sir fappanot - it is a blip on the journey - but not a major set-back for you. Think of all you have achieved here already and keep on with the momentum. Stay strong, my friend. We're all here in this together.
    handyman
    handyman
    thanks, guys -- sound advice which i will use!
    handyman
    made it almost 13 days no P and just threw that away. the counter resets. :..(
    Dailydoer
    Dailydoer
    Now realize that this was a mistake. Don't binge now. Get up quick and now make a stronger decision. Good luck bro
    R
    recovering onanist
    handyman, to go almost 2 weeks is still a big achievement - you are headed in the right direction and so don't despair about the reset. Just resolve to go further the next time. I wish you the very best, brother.
    The 1000 Water Fists
    The 1000 Water Fists
    Move on ,start over and reset.
    handyman
    Dammit. Relapse urges so strong.
    N
    nofapporn
    Remember the disater and dissapoinment in last relapse . I you relapse today think what energy you put to overcomming the tempetation will fail . and you might be pusing your cure for a year if you relapse now
    handyman
    Day one (number four hundred thousand) a success! Learning every way to fail takes a long time, eh?
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