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you are what you repeatedly do Feb 2, 2020

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    1. tavla
      Hello stegiss, thanks for sharing your thoughts and described your experience with addiciton so well! I was able to learn a lot. Often people speak only about the effects that addiction has on them but not about how it works inside of them! Really interesting and great arguments! All the best! :)
      1. stegiss
        Hi tavla, thank you :). This was a really interesting and educating thread and it was revealing to read your post too.

        You have a very good point in bringing up addiction to other daily substances like sugar (or fats, or internet, ...).
        There is a common mechanism at work and while porn consumption suggests links to sexuality, relationship, women, the actual problem sits deeper.
        Jun 13, 2020
    2. Roady
      Nice meaningful picture in your profile
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      2. stegiss
        Thanks :).
        It reminds me of what is really important.
        In my mind, it reminds me of "Cat's in the Cradle" - it is such a scary and sad song about what you can loose when you waste your time with non-important stuff.
        May 22, 2020
    3. stegiss
      you are what you repeatedly do
    4. enigmaaa
      enigmaaa r you doing..
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      2. stegiss
        Hi enigmaaa,
        not overly good at the moment. Kept falling in the last week. It is strange how I often think I can make it and few days later falling back to old habits. Somehow feeling too confident lures me into not being careful about my actions
        Mar 3, 2017
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      3. Atlanticus
        Hello @stegiss! Trying to figure out what I was getting out of PMO -- what feelings it created or covered up -- & to address them in a healthier way. has helped me. Also, to ask myself what I’m going to put in place of PMO (something constructive of course) so I can immediately build up an alternative way of being. BEST of success, guy! (BTW, as a single dad your avatar really resonates with me.)
        May 17, 2017
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    5. enigmaaa
      enigmaaa the fight going hope you are doing well.....
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    6. enigmaaa
      enigmaaa r u...
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      2. stegiss
        Hi there, and thanks.
        I saw you are doing well on your current streak - Keep up the good faith!
        Feb 7, 2017
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    Jan 25, 1978 (Age: 42)
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    Married to a gorgeous, loving woman, Father to two amazing girls. Life could be perfect but instead, I am wasting away and risking everything. If I could just get a grip on PM.


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