I don’t think there’s anything wrong or pervert about sexual thoughts at all, in fact, every human has them in some way or other. It’s about the role of sexuality in your life, in my opinion. Fantasising, having sex with other people and occasionally masturbating is all healthy. Spending a lot of your time looking at a computer screen jacking off to images or stories of other people having sex isn’t. That’s it.
Day 0/90 I relapsed. I went on to take a look on porn site and after some time I fapped to it. Still I broke my record it's sad I can't hold it for long.
How far did you get? Focus on that. Now you know you can make it that far, and you can start right away with doing it again. And you can probably make it further this time.
Well said, bro, well said. This tantricman guy should be in the NoFap hall of fame. He is already part of its lore. Congrats, Titu, really happy for you. Keep up the good work!
i had a reset... after a very hard night of anxiety, i couldn't sleep until 6 am and i ejaculated after edging for some time. this reminds me again that my anxiety problems are always feed with masturbation. i'm always coping with overthinking ideas and without masturbating turns harder to relax. BUT I NEED TO QUIT AND WORK IN A SOLUTION. i'm not giving up so I started again. I already passed day one and i'm going for two.
11 days my brothers. here´s a great video from my favorite porn rebooter coach. have a nice day brothers
Day 3 - Its day 3 and I still haven't had the urge to revert back to my old ways, I have no sexual cravings what so ever. I am hurt and broken by the situation of I'm trying and I really am trying but I have no support from my PARTNER, the past is still being thrown in my face and I want to put this all behind me, I am serious about my recovery and I don't know how to stay positive. I still haven't back slidden though and I will continue to fight. #IWILLNOTQUIT
31/90 The day wasn't difficult at all, but on the street I saw a female police officer and she was so hot. What a trigger for me.
Current Challenge 1/90 (ends Feb 25) 277/307 Good Days (no relapse) Day 98 weight training (M, W, F) Day 34 reduced alcohol, caffeine and sugar Joined nofap Jan 25, 2019 Longest streaks 67 then 51 (4 years later) - seriously considering taking the reforged man course from universal man as I think I may need the extra help - might wait to see how this steak turns out first though - feeling zero urges and good resolve this morning but what do you expect from day one.... - stay strong self and nofap friends - your brother in this struggle
34 days. Remember that no matter how bad we've felt, our bodies and minds are resilient and have the capability to heal and recharge. Let's keep going forward gentlemen.
For me the way to stay positive is to try to look at the big picture. I'm trying to make a fundamental change in how I live my life. Therefore I accept that there will be obstacles, and setbacks, and sometimes I'll just have to depend on my own inner strength when others around me don't understand. Change is not easy, friend. It takes commitment. It takes a willingness to push through the bad days, trusting that better days are ahead. It takes the courage to filter out the "noise", both from our own inner urges, as well as negative external influences. I will tell you this, we here who have taken on this challenge really do get what you're saying and feeling, as we have been there ourselves. The good part is, there truly is hope for healing ahead. It takes effort, and planning, and a little bit of faith, but freedom from the self-destructive cycle we all know really is possible.