Hi, everyone. I used to have a major problem with porn and masturbation addiction. Throughout my puberty I was masturbating (to porn) every day, twice or sometimes even three times a day. I am 18 now. I was sexually exhausted and I have been taking herbs to fix issues that have stemmed from it. (I took horny goat weed to fix my ED. I don't have an issue with this at all anymore. Now I suffer from severe premature ejaculation and excessive Precum leakage, which I have been taking ashwagandha powder to fix). I have a girlfriend who lives long distance from me, who I am going to visit in less than two months. I want to fix my premature ejaculation and excessive leakage problem before I go visit her. So for weeks I have been going through a reboot hard mode. Throughout the day, I have no problems and can control myself. But at night I fear even going to sleep.. these past couple of weeks I've been taking the ashwagandha with no PMO whatsoever. Every few days I experience wet dreams, and every time it's happened I end up cumming three times in my sleep. It's never once, it's always three times. I'm not even touching myself or anything, I'll just have a dream and I'll blow my load and wake up. This has been so discouraging to me, and it makes me just want to give up.. I'm trying to do everything I can to fix my problem and I feel like no matter what I do, it doesn't even matter because something that I have no control over is ruining it. I feel like giving up. If anyone has any advice for me, it would be greatly appreciated.. Thank you
I’m on day 70 and have had about 3 or 4..I think that is completely normal and shouldn’t discourage you
Every time I have a wet dream it only takes less than a minute of an erotic dream and then I wake up cumming. Is it supposed to happen this fast too or is this not normal?
I'd say this is within the normal range for your age. When I was 18 (I'm 28 now) if I went 3 days without PMO I'd have a wet dream like clockwork: always on the third or fourth day and always from a dream that was less than 30 seconds long. You're still young enough that your hormones probably haven't "settled down yet" (I don't think mine did until like 25) so I wouldn't worry about the wet dreams: focus on the other problems and consider the wet dreams as a sign of healing. Maybe do some more research on whether or not the herbal supplements are helping or making things worse. You'll get through this! Keep your chin up!
I think it's not normal. In this thread : 6 years clean: rebooting as the best remedy, the autor talk about wet dreams and noctural emissions. About wet dreams: you need to manage your mind (your hard mode is good but fill your mind with rebooting material it will be even better) and there's is also an exercise to strengthen the kidney (to do before sleepin, it helps against wet dremas). This has been of great help to me.