After watching and masturbate for 12 years it is very difficult to stop it.. Sometimes it seems even impossibLe
Its not impossible . In fact its fearly easy after 100 days sober . Just find a motivation , methods and a way to reach 100 days . Make it and you will see my point.I have been pmo ing for 28 years ...but now i have hope . We must win
@Kratos_GOW What's up everybody! I've been AWOL ever since coming back to college so I want to apologize for that. But here's the good news. I haven't PMO'd in 41 days! Feels great. Edging is still a problem which I'm dealing with but I'm glad that I haven't fapped to O in so long. Hope everyone is still grinding!
very nice, thanks for sharing. Your deeper understanding of your desires and real human interaction in general makes you strong in disliking porn. day 55
@Kratos_GOW Day 1 will commence at half 12 for me! I posted a thread yesterday but I didn't tag you, off to the gym and to keep myself busy for today, had a recent slip from 27 days but got back on the horse as fast as possible, could use some tips on how to handle the weak moment and prepare for them!
I have also been wondering what methods other people use to fight urges and win the battle? Here are a few things I do that have helped: - Ending a shower with cold water only - Limiting time on phone and devices - Going outside and doing something e.g walking, digging and building stuff. - Reading a book on something im interested in (knife making atm) I also had an experience a few months ago that made me realise that sexual energy is just a form of energy and you can train yourself you can direct that energy into anything you do e.g exercise, creativity or mental. Hope this info helps in some way
I agree with @Baz-9 . Sexual energy is in essence simple energy, the "problem" to call it in that way, is that you're not conscious of that simple part, so you think calm sexual desire just reach with sexual activity, or whatever it seems like (porn, jerk off, have sex, etc.). But ones you find out sexual energy is just energy you can redirect it in your way, with your own will. That's the magic I guess, cause if you realized that you are able to make something different to achieving that "discharge", you would rather do something different than spend your day in front of a computer watching fake bodies, fake people, fake situations. Porn is just a performance, nothing is real and so it will your life if you let it take you over.
Thanks for those words, but actually this forum is what is making me more powerful than I was, all this progress is thanks to you mates. Day 45.
Check in day 2, feeling good, made a list of everything I want to do today , and a schedule I have a full day which is great, may the gods be in your favour guys! We've got this