You bought a cage for NoFap? I don't get it, why would you buy a kink, won't that just make it way worse?
Yes, because I have a bad week. I have been on a flat line for almost three weeks and now my libidity is suddenly above the clouds. And I'm having a hard time advancing the NoFap challenge. Last night I found out that the cage makes it even worse because it turns me on more. I don't know what to do ... it's costing me. See that I do sports, do homework, play on the computer, etc. So far I have not relapsed, but I admit that I was on the verge yesterday.
Ye, I understand that, but I don't think a cage is the way to go, it's kind of a fetish you know. But good luck to you.
For that reason, I withdrew it last night because I didn't look good. At the end of the day everything is in the mind and have the will to fight.
Yesterday: Meeting my Goals day 6 ✅ - Contender Day 6 noP ✅ 3 times autogenic training 3/3 day 2✅ Internet addiction defeated day day 0 ➖
I relapsed a few hours ago, the urges were too great for a moment... today I had to use my computer alone all day for work. I wanted to send a message to a friend via instagram (had uninstalled the app before this challenge)... I reinstalled the app and from there it quickly went to viewing instagram models... and on and on. However, I was able to pull myself out of the moment and convince myself to just turn my PC and phone off... I'm embarrassed of myself! I will start again from day 1 tomorrow...
Day 9 complete. I felt those urges today as well, however putting that energy into constructive habits is indeed a game changer!
Hey Sergio, I agree you do not need a cage. Use the energy from nofap to build good habits instead. Read, prayer & meditation, build stuff, grow a garden, draw, take a course, and meet other people face to face(super important). Think about how you can serve those around you, and I guarantee you'll start to think less about jerking a dick.
Day 13. After peaking yesterday I feel so much regret and shame as if i had relapsed. It was a relapse at certain degree, but i hope i can recover from it, if not it will led to a full relapse. I can´t give up now
