8 years without a relationship

You are definitely overthinking. Just find the right woman and create a healthy relationship with her and everything will be okay.

 

Money has nothing to do with your relationship status. It’s okay that you have not been in a relationship for 8 years. This is what PMO does to us. It changes our mind to feel comfortable around the women on our screens, but uncomfortable around women in the real world. It makes us not even care to seek real relationships. Also, I think you are overthinking your situation. There are women who are just like you. And of course there are women not like you, but know that there are people in the world who ignore our past and love us for who we are now. You will find someone like this I promise. Try your best to make it happen though. I’m not sure if you’ve tried dating apps/websites, but if you haven’t consider giving them a try. If you feel anxious about doing that, this is the PMO talking not you. Stay strong.

 

dude i know plently job less couples, i have a friend hes in betweenjobs with a beautiful girl friend, i worked with a hottie that lived with her boyfriend , he had no job just smoked weed everyday

 

my first relationship was in grade eleven, me second an last relationship was grade 12, lasted 6 years, been single like a christmas jingle, since then, few of those years i wasnt nofap, i was lonely, depressed, suicidal, found nofap, i feel great, i have no urge to get a girlfriend now,i well have been single 12 years once i reach 2022, i well be celebrating my single life in new years , yes there well be refreshments

 

it depends on what level of girlfriend you want, theirs plenty levels, the no job level im sure theirs plenty, minium wage level, median level, blue colar, white, black , green. purple, blah blah blah , the question is this. can you aford a baby once you knock her up,

 

how long have you been practicing nofap, usually we gain some confidence an stamina

 

I haven't been in a relationship in about 10-12 years. Just during that time I have been traveling, dating girls, clubbing, exercising and other activities I enjoy. I don't enjoy being single, but I am not going to complain about either.

 

I’ve been wanting a relationship but it hasn’t happened. It is what it is. I’d rather be alone than settle for something I know isn’t right but go along with out of desperation. I’m focusing on myself and hope one day I find someone.

 

I'll give you 3 tips.
- kill PMO
- Keep working on your job
- Give a gentle smile to every girl you like. It also means you are happy and eventually makes you happier. Which will change everything and finally help you to find a good partner.

 

I am in my 30's and have not been in a relationship with a woman about 12 years. I used think it was a big deal. But after accomplishing so much within those 12 years, I don't know if I had a girlfriend, I would accomplish all that. Now, I do socialize weekly and do my best to participate in social activities (Gym, movies, meetups, festivals, and etc). This keeps my mind off of being single.

 

It is what it is. I would love to be in a relationship but that doesn’t change the fact I’m not. All I can do is focus on myself.

 

I'm 42 and only had 1 relationship in my life. I'll probably now never have a woman.

 

we gotta snap out of that way of thinking